How to avoid getting friend zoned and make yourself appear as a potential "mate"/partner?

xJoey23 · 2019-03-20T22:11:28+00:00

Don’t wait too long before making a move, make it clear that you want her romantically from the start before she categorizes you as a friend.

TheAnon1996 · 2019-03-21T03:43:37+00:00

Move quickly. Like, from the moment that you meet you flirt and by the end of your first interaction you build enough rapport you set up a date naturally. If she likes you she likes you the most when she knows the least about you.

dailymanup · 2019-03-21T07:14:50+00:00

Make sure to present a strong sexual frame and move quickly. Here's a video which explains the sexual frame. Also, a written version with more info.

White_Mlungu_Capital · 2019-03-21T07:50:25+00:00

Make the move, move on. You don't get friendzoned, you CHOOSE to be friendzoned. I cannot make you my friend. you have to sign up for it. You walk away if she rejects you, and you make your move quickly. The most effective method in seduction, is to recognize when you are trying to seduce a target who doesn't want to be seduced.

If you are in the friendzone, make the move, chase other women, she will chase you.

AndroidProject · 2019-03-21T15:17:12+00:00

Todd has an interesting concept about that.

The moment you go in, you establish a premise. You can do that either by an opener or immediately after the opener with push pull or a direct compliment. The compliment however, is a bit risky if the girl does not find you attractive and you can get blown off. With push pull you don't give too much of your power away. It tells her that the interaction is man to woman, but unlike with the compliment, it does not mean you want her already, plus she experiences various emotions already in the beginning.

What i usually do when i am out is: Go up to a girl or a group and either start with an opinion opener or, 70% of the time situational opener. I comment on something that she is wearing or anything like that, but i make it relevant to her. Sometimes i even go up and just say: "you seem like trouble". You will have to get creative though, but if you are in state it is pretty easy. If i am especially motivated, i immediately open with a push pull. However, make it relevant to her, because you will get her attention that way.

So to summarize: Don't chitchat. Maintain eye contact and use push pull immediately. One other way is to call her evil or trouble, i don't know why but girls respond to that like crazy, i use it all the time.

Title	How to avoid getting friend zoned and make yourself appear as a potential "mate"/partner?
Author	waynefan77991
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	March 20, 2019 10:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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