Hi Sedditors,

I realized I had the Yips when I just talked to two hot girls (Scandinavian au pair HB9) and a HB8 one-night stand from 3 weeks ago that I was hoping to turn into a beneficial friend, I really like her.

I basically have told the HB9 that she should come to our party but I asked her in the lamest way possible. On Faceboook. Out of the blue, w/o ever having met her before (we just have mutual friends) and with a whole paragraph of lame Below AFC stuff.

After HB8 didn't respond much for a week I asked her on Facebook today

Me: "Should I just leave you alone for good?"

HB: Goes offline.

I don't feel very alpha right now and wonder if this happens to others and what do you do when it does?

For these two it might be too late, but How can I make sure not to ruin my chances anymore?

Note: I'm doing no fap going 83 days strong which might be part of the symptoms.

TL;DR: I fucked up. Got the Yips. Help!

UPDATE: Here's a brief update:

HB8 responded at 3am talking about how her life is just crazy right now. I'm going to just forget about her for now.

Scandinavian HB responded late but really positive about the party invite. She might actually show but I also invited a bunch of other hotties.

I will keep you posted on this .

Abundance mentality is beginning to return.

Thanks for the wise words when I needed them