Firefighter that works a lot always been really good at short term relationships and turning women on for a month or two and getting great sex from them but never really a long term relationship guy. Now that I am married and trying to build a family I feel as if I do a horrible job of flirting and actually seducing my wife. She used to be utterly obsessed with me and wanting me to constantly fuck her brains out which I did. I’m an in shape guy blue belt in jiu jitsu hunt, fish former college athlete so I never really had to figure out how to seduce women in college but then getting in the real world things changed for me. I just shifted my focus on being a solid dude that makes good money and I try to be a great father to my two boys. Now after having my second kid who is now 2 I just feel as if I don’t REALLY got it like I used to when it comes to her. Any mindset shifts or frameworks that can help me figure this out?