~ archived since 2018 ~
Popular
Other
[deleted]
[–]HumptyDumptyFellHard 22 points23 points24 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just ask your friends to take photos of you when you’re out with them. No need to hire a damn photographer lol. Going out with friends? Good, take a photo of you with your boys holding a drink. Don’t try to hard. After all, it’s social media.
[–]EnvironmentalTwister 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Going use this.
[–]chillwithwolves 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You might have a chance if you got a six pack or do some really badass shit with a GoPro. Also if you’re really rich or a famous SoundCloud artist maybe. De ends on the type of girl you DM I guess if she’s down to earth you might have a chance. If she’s an Instagram model good luck dude lol.
[–]sabinmightyfist 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's really tough. Unless you're very handsome/fun lifestyle/wealthy social media is stacked against you. Girls gets hundreds of DM's from thirsty dudes
[–]Thunderfin 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It may be different for certain age demographics, though here's a 19 y/o's advice:
In terms of actually gaming and sliding in, I'll leave that to someone else. I've tried before, albeit like twice, and haven't been successful. I prefer cold approaches. Tbh I'll report back in a few months when I'm in college, will probably be easier then.
[–]GET_IN_THE_VAN 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The best way to get girls on instagram is to post stories. See who keeps watching them and who messages you through them.
People are telling you to have a good follow ratio but do not worry about that at all when you are first starting, women don't really care about it that much anyway.
[–]Thunderfin 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Messages definitely, but I personally wouldn't consider watching a story as a sign of interest. I watch lots of stories because they're like five seconds long.
I would agree that if I had to decide, follower count is more important than ratios. There are Chads who hardly use Instagram and have like 100 followers, but I know way more who have 1k followers and follow ~700 back.
[–]chillwithwolves 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If they reply to your story it's a good sign though as the gentleman above me said!
[–]Thunderfin 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh definitely -- have only had one girl reply to a story of mine before and tbh I think she was interested in me. Just doesn't happen often [I'd think to most guys!].
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.created by /u/dream-hunter
[–]HumptyDumptyFellHard 22 points23 points24 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]EnvironmentalTwister 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]chillwithwolves 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]sabinmightyfist 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Thunderfin 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]GET_IN_THE_VAN 4 points5 points6 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Thunderfin 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]chillwithwolves 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Thunderfin 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link