Hey guys,

I just discovered this sub and think it's just fantastic! I needed some advice on ways to keep an Ex-GF off my mind when interacting with other girls.

Ok so here's a little context. So this year during March I had probably the worst week of my entire life. My girlfriend of 4 years, who I was absolutely nuts about broke up with me. Later that week I also found out that one of my close friends had passed away and truthfully I don't think I've ever reached a lower point. Fast forward 5 months to now. My Ex has ALREADY started dating someone else. The guy is like the polar opposite of myself and I try to convince myself that its just a rebound and this guy is no better than I am. This girl broke my heart, and I haven't been the same since. I slept with another girl over the summer but she made all the moves. Every time I even think about flirting I go back to my ex. I had a dream the other night that we got back together and I actually woke up happier than I've ever been... only to become equally as sad. I'm a decent looking guy, 6'0'', 215lbs... I've been on a diet, and the 215 is about 10 pounds less than two weeks ago, so I think my work out is helping as well. I'm 22 years old and just graduated college. I have decent game but just dont come in to contact with girls as often as I used to and lack confidence/focus enough to try with strangers.

Any out there with a similar story that found a way to over come??

Thanks so much Seddit ya'll have changed so much for me already!