Me and my ex has a special relationship its like a soul tie, she moved out of state for 4 years and we kinda always stayed in contact even if it was just little check ins but she recently moved back and me and her been vibeing we see each other almost every day and even been having sex but the problem is she came back with a boyfriend and he been fuckin up more and more to the point they even had a domestic situation and police was called since then ive asked what she trynna fix dealing with him and she commented that she feel when thing start messing up like this she doesn’t want to fix it so my question is am i being impatient and should let things flow or are there things i can do to speed up the process because I want my girl back