I just got out of my first relationship a couple weeks ago and decided to rebound. I met a girl at a club, and she came home with me, but when we went to have sex I couldn't get hard. I was just so nervous, and not as physically attracted to her as I was to my ex.

I guess I still associate sex with love, and I didn't love her, so I didn't feel turned on.

She was understanding but it was cringe - we just had small talk while naked in bed, and then she left.

Any way to get over these nerves? I am going to quite masturbating and porn for the next few weeks and see if it helps.

Maybe casual sex is not for me? I don't think I can get into a serious relationship any time soon either.

Anyway that was one of the most embarassing moments of my life.