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| 35 | Take infields with a pinch of salt | IntrepidFoot | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 11:08 AM | |
| 4 | Rejecting a married girl FR | IntrepidFoot | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 01:09 PM | |
| 2 | Should I have escalated more? | IntrepidFoot | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 10:59 AM | |
| 1 | 'running game' vs 'talking too a girl' | IntrepidFoot | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 11:35 AM | |
| 1 | Are US people really this friendly?! | IntrepidFoot | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 04:39 PM | |
| 1 | Anyone's 'innergame' improved through medication such as zoloft or some anti anxiety med? | IntrepidFoot | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 08:31 AM |
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| 2 | 1) What are the most active pickup forums aside from reddit now - now that RSD is down? And 2) What are the best forums to ask questions and get good answers in your experience?the literature still exists. One can still read the mysterymethod if he wants too. (even after watching his infields!) But they'll discover that it isn't all it's cracked up to be lol (and if it was, there wouldn't be so many people constantly looking for the next product/book having failed to get results from it) I think that with youtube and online communities, people are quicker able to smell bullshit nowadays, and so there's less gullible people and more evidence disputing various theory. I … | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 03:43 PM |
| 3 | 1) What are the most active pickup forums aside from reddit now - now that RSD is down? And 2) What are the best forums to ask questions and get good answers in your experience?RSD forums went down AGES ago. Like nearly a year lol RooshV went from being a die-hard PUA believer who would ban people for suggesting looks mattered. Then he backtracked and said 'game is something that only works when she thinks you're good looking', and then he basically turned his back on game, and 'found God' and now he's a weirdo religious nut and deleted all PUA content (ps - I don't believe he ever really got laid. Just wrote books etc) Most of the other forums stopped getting any traf… | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 01:09 PM |
| 4 | How do I continue conversations?the PUA answer is to make assumptions and cold reads etc. However, your result WILL be the same if you are talking too a girl who isn't interested/doesn't want to talk back no matter what tips and tricks you try (cold reads, assumptions, statements etc) Julien proved that interview mode is fine. It's just that nothing will work on a girl who isn't interested/attracted and doesn't really want to engage you. A convo has to be a 2-way thing for it to work. It's likely not your fault. When you open … | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 10:24 PM |
| -5 | Get depressed seeing men with women way way out of there league.if it makes you feel any better, he didn't just approach her and start kissing her. If she's a lot hotter than him, it's almost certainly the result of a long relationship where they like met at work and have known each other for years and she eventually got into a relationship with him through a mixture of propinquity, luck and circumstance. He wouldn't have got her from cold approach. And he probably won't be able to keep her either lol (She'll hook up with good looking dudes she's properly at… | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 10:16 PM |
| 8 | Is Pickup a scam?Game in itself 'exists', in that social skills definitely play a role, but the industry is somewhat 'scammy' and definitely full of lies in the 'power' they attribute to game. It really isn't some sort of black magic. At any level. Go out and buy a book on 'advanced game' and apply it and see for yourself lol She needs to find you physically attractive. That's the first thing they don't want to tell you. (and yes, some girls will find RSDTyler physically attractive. They're the ones he pulls) An… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Mystery live online trainingIn Europe? No. Girls see that sort of 'game' as very odd indeed lol. They'll think there's something wrong with you or that they're on a hidden camera show or something In the US? Sometimes - although, as you say, it's really a matter of them just being into the guy. It's not as if any of that stuff is really gonna MAKE her attracted to someone who she wasn't before As with all methods, it was actually the result of the method giving them the confidence to actually approach a girl that reaped th… | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Mystery live online trainingit's pretty easy. You can learn the method in about 30 seconds without paying him a grand Open - ''who lies more, men or women?'' Then a neg hit - accuse her nails of being fake or something Then a DHV story - something about the time you saved your friend from a bear attack (brave) on a trip that you organise (leader of men) and how your model ex girlfriend was angry about it all (pre-selection!) She is now attracted. You test this with comliance tests (ask her to go somehwere with you etc) If … | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Mystery Method in today's game?first guy is a mysterymethod student - daygaming in a library (he usually goes all out with hats and card tricks etc for night game) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_-ByWai4__o | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Coach Kyle's game?You kind of answered your own question. There's no rules in game (so, in a sense, there IS not game!) As you say, all the 'coaches' all advise completely different stuff and contradict each other non-stop yet all claim to be super slayers who can bang whoever they want lol. Whatever you do in an interaction is 'correct' according to one method, and 'wrong' according too a different PUA coach Coach Kyle, just like all other PUA's though, is simply playing the numbers game and cherry picking his '… | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | It doesn't seem to work.bingo | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 06:57 PM |
| 3 | It doesn't seem to work.it's not usually a matter of 'learning from mistakes' as typically, you didn't do anything wrong (unless in rare circumstances where the guy was choking on his words etc) You might think 'Ahh, I must have got rejected because my approach angle was 5 degrees off' when in reality, you just weren't her physical type. Maybe later you'll approach a girl with a 'better approach angle' and she likes you and you tell yourself that you 'learnt from your mistakes' whereas, in reality, that girl just thoug… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 06:28 PM |
| 9 | Field Report - I Need an uglier wing!! @)You're own fault for gaming with someone who sounds to be exceptionally handsome! I've been there so don't take it personally There's no way that you can compete. You could know every pushpull line and neg and DHV story there is to know. Every 'AMOG' 'nice shirt, bro' line that exists. You could have the best eye contact and body language in the world. You could love yourself and tell yourself that you love yourself everyday after you meditate and be the most 'self amused' mofo there is. If she … | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 02:51 PM |
| 6 | It's interesting to see how some girls can act totally different depending on the person !'Looks' = 'attraction' Interactions with a girl are very different when she is sexually attracted. And girls (PARTICULARLY young ones) care at least about looks as much as us guys do. Can't really blame them for that lol | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 09:11 AM |
| -1 | Is taking acid with a girl considered a date?I don't know a great deal about acid tbh, but doesn't his have the potential to look a bit 'date rapey'??! She'd be pretty out of it?! I'd be scared of trying to escalate and then fucking a girl who thinks she's grinding against a tree and catching a date rape charge lol | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Field Report - First Time Out In 2020YES, you're okay. She thought you were handsome. Game over!!! :) | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Game is really just flirtingshe flirted back with him because she thought he was was good looking | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Game is really just flirtingyes. Agreed. We're on the same page now lol | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 06:16 PM |
| 30 | Game is really just flirtingmost guys DON'T know how to flirt or do so in a way that builds attraction I think the point was that it doesn't build attraction. (and that that's not the role of game. Not possible) Flirting with someone doesn't make them want to have sex with you if they didn't before. It's simply a way of showing your intent and seeing if she is attracted and a way to make it easier for her to show IF she is | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?You are a scammer too. All PUAs are pretty much, lol We can all just go out and apply all this shit tonight (since it's all out there for free) and can see for ourselves just how powerful (or not) this stuff is lol Too many 'coaches' and shit here at the moment with their outrageous claims just here to try to make some money, fucking up the forum | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 02:31 PM |
| 2 | How to get rid of limiting beliefs if they are true?it's a bit of a PUA cringey term. You know if something is a 'limiting belief' or whether it's just a fact of life. If PUA's started teaching how to be a professional basketball player, they'd tell you that your excuses about having no arms are also a 'limiting belief'. I promise lol. Don't forget that's it's business first. Use common sense. Look at those around you who you can see with your own eyes. Who's having success? Who has the same limitations as you? How are they doing? That's the best… | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 09:12 AM |
| 4 | Is Real Social Dynamics (RSD) really dead?Max was my favourite for a while, but he turned into a dick and seemed to have some sort of personality transplant as soon as he started to make some good money and was 'successful'! I also quite liked his product, but when I re-watch it now some years later with the benefit of more experienced eyes, I feel like basically all of his pulls are due to that particular girl thinking he was handsome, and he just managed to not mess it up. Really nothing that impressive. Pure 'numbers game' if you wil… | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 09:09 AM |
| 2 | I'm good looking and can't seem to pick up girlssounds like you're just scared to escalate and show intent. You already have 'attraction' thanks to being good looking. That's 95% of the work done. Ugly guys can learn 'game' for 5 years and use every line and technique in the book and still fail to get attraction most of teh time since he's just not her type. Just make a damn move! lol | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 08:58 AM |
| 2 | "Don't worry about openers" is bullshit when you're a beginner, How do I start a conversation?Just in case someone is from teh UK, the typical advice of walking up to her and introducing yourself will make you look a bit of an oddball here, so don't do that (fine if you are in the US, though) | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Stackingyep. They either: Fake infields (like Torerro and a good few others did) Don't have infields ('coach' (lol) who expects you to take their word for it that they are some sort of Don Juan) Have infields - but they are hardly impressive. He opens a girl who is instantly receptive because she thinks he's hot. He gets a number or a lay because she was already attracted. Or he Opens a girl who isn't remotely receptive because he isn't her type and it ends up in his rejection compilation | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?they're all full of shit. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] More solo nights (new years + Jan 3)Good FR, man. Was hoping for more interactions! PS - Night game numbers will mostly be dead, tbh. pps - I take it you're from the UK? If so, where abouts? | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 05:11 PM |
| 9 | Cold shoulder response?It's completely expected. Even more so in some countries. Try engaging hot British girls in the UK (in non tourist areas) as a non handsome dude. Then you'll know the true meaning of a cold shoulder! haha | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 04:24 PM |
| 4 | StackingI've never found stacking (or cold reads or any other PUA stuff) any more effective than just being normal and asking questions about her and stuff, tbh. I sometimes think the PUA thing about 'interview mode' and instead using cold reads and making statements etc basically stopped PUA's from sounding normal and made them all sound weird to the girls lol. However, JulienRSD proved that interview mode was just fine. The set will hook just fine with just being normal as long as she's attracted to y… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Is being super direct the way to go?state is good and game is good, and can mean getting a better 'reaction' after the open at times, but it's irrelevant if she's not physically attracted to you. You'll be going home alone | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Is being super direct the way to go?walking up and saying “I think you’re pretty” is always well received. Clearly not 'always' :) - it can also be very badly recieved if she's a certain type of girl and you're not her type | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Is being super direct the way to go?yeareally never had infields or any proof of anything, tbh. Even how he looked. Maybe he was actually tall and handsome. Or maybe he didn't pull at all but just enjoyed all of the theory and stuff | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Do we need to re-write the rule book for UK girls?!https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bmnbsl/the_uk_scene/?st=k4y09jnz&sh=a203f1ba | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Girls are MOSTLY into looks. Am I wrong?YOUNG girls proabably care even MORE about looks than guys, tbh. If she's hot and young and doesn't think you're 'hot', you have literally zero chance. Older women will give you some leeway if you have a good personality (game) | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Here is various coaches game in a nutshell for you to tryI have it completley the other way around, unless i've missunderstood you lol. Mystery and Todd sound super autistic on them examples! Julien just mostly 'normal' People should go out and 'apply game' such as in the examples though to finally put to bed whether this stuff actually works or not. I already know the answer. More poeple need to test it and see for themselves though lol | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 09:44 AM |
| 10 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?Are you just posting old 'yareally' posts as your own?? | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?It's about 60% bullshit, tbh. You're either her type or you aren't bascially. Obviously coaches and stuff will tell you what they need to tell you in order to take your money They can't prove this 'superpower' where you can basically bang any girl you want though obvoiusly lol And obviously some people aren't coaches but still claim to be able to bang whoever they want because they get off on the online ego boost But literally go out and APPLY this stuff, and you'll realise that it 'works' when … | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Average looking guy with amazing game vs supermodel with no gamei've also hooked up with girls that are way better looking than me, although it was simply a case of her having slightly unusual taste in hindisght.( Not all girls have the same physical preferences, luckily!) I knew within about 2 mins that I was her 'type' I also work with lots of girls, so I don't think you'll be able to convince me of the PUA thing about girls not caring about looks based on what i see and hear them say lol. I honestly think they're even worse than MEN when it comes to that … | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 10:32 AM |
| 0 | Average looking guy with amazing game vs supermodel with no gameboth sexes care the same about looks - don't fall for the PUA' girls don't care about looks' nonsense that was made up by the PAU 'mystery' in order to help him sell his book lol https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19558447 | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Average looking guy with amazing game vs supermodel with no gameexactly! Still makes me cringe that despite the endless proof in front of us (not to mention common sense), people believe 'game' to be some kind of dark art black magic where you can force attraction in a girl who doesn't think you're hot, with a few 'push pulls' or whatever lol. | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 09:32 AM |
| -1 | Average looking guy with amazing game vs supermodel with no gamesupermodel lol -Don't forget that the best 'game' in the world will only increase your odds with any particualr girl by like 5%. If she's not attracted to you, then it's game over. But a male model will already have attraction with a huge percentage of girls. From there, he just needs to not be so weird and boring so as to lose that attraction and then escalate to sex | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 09:29 AM |
| 4 | For female it is so fucking easy for them to date/hook up. I am getting so annoyed.Just the way it is. Guys might have to open thousands of women before they open one who's attracted to them (unless you hit the genetic lottery) But guys are horny. And even average looking girls can get laid with a better looking guy than her at the click of her fingers. If anything, guys care LESS about looks than girls do, lol | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 08:22 PM |
| 2 | The truth about the numbers gamewithout physical attraction, you're just spinning your wheels. You can neg and tease and DHV etc etc, but you'll never get her naked. Same as if Rosie O'Donnel tried to persuade you into finding her attractive | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | The truth about the numbers gamelol. It's the same for guys and girls. They need physical attraction before the game can even being | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:55 PM |
| 3 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.agreed. The whole industry really is basically a huge scam built on a massive lie with some half-truth thrown in, and i'm mildly embarrassed that i fell for it a few years back (read over 50 PUA books, too, as well as RSD programs etc) Experience has taught me the truth. And I have nothing to sell. But people are free to believe what they want. They too will discover the truth in time lol | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Dan Bacon?never seen an infield of him. Have to take his word for it. Anyone can claim to be amazing with women, though I doubt he does that well, tbh | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Anyone has RSD Juliens pimp by julien ? pleasethey should be easy to find online. Torrent sites etc? I used to own them all (every single RSD product) but on my old broken laptop | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Anyone has RSD Juliens pimp by julien ? pleasethey should be easy to find online. Torrent sites etc | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Describe your friend who gets laid the mostHe doesn't get laid the most now (he's had a beautiful GF for a few years now and rarely cheats) but if he wanted too, it's clear as day that he could get laid with a stunner every single night based on what I see when we're out together lol Looks to me like a mixture between RSD Max and a youngish Brad Pitt? Strong jawline, bright green eyes, sharp facial features with some facial hair. Surprisingly not very tall. About 5ft 8? Fairly well muscled although he actually doesn't even work out! Frea… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Why are there no pick-up groups for Women?correct. Physical attraction is obviously always the pre-requisite. Girls confirm this. The idea that mysterymethod tried to sell people that girls don't care about looks has thankfully pretty much been relegated to the status of the flat earth society nowadays. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone had any luck with JMULV nightgame method?I have them all already. For free lol You can get literally EVERYTHING for free in terms of PUA stuff | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 05:23 PM |
| 0 | What exactly is game?I've read a few books but it all talks about common sense which all men should know. Correct. I don't think i've ever learnt anything I didn't already know from a game book. I think it's only people with serious social issues who need to 'learn' this stuff, maybe? Most people already know to try to hold eye contact with people. Or to listen to what someone says and to reply based on what they say Think of it more as 'learning' to feel more comfortable when you open a hot girl, which should slowl… | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone had any luck with JMULV nightgame method?Why would that 'method' work for someone who she wasn't physically attracted too, out of interest? You open ''HI can I meet you real quick?' You ask her name, age, what she does for a job. Then ask if she likes maragaritas (he uses grey goose in the infields i've watched) Then ask her back to your place and then try to bang her I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, but the fact he sells a COURSE on that and makes good money from it makes my blood boil lol Bit like me selling a $1000 d… | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 09:55 AM |
| 13 | What women supposedly get sexually attracted to according to Dan BaconAccording to Dan Bacon, women get sexually attracted basically to your intent. If you aren't afraid of confidently displaying your sexual side, women will become sexually attracted to you ha! If you're her type, sure. If she isn't remotely attracted to you, rather than becoming attracted to you when you start to shamelessly show your sexual intent, she'll be sick in her handbag and mace you in the face! :) | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I need inspiration! Which films have a focus (or a few good scenes) on men practicing great seduction?This is true in real life. I read an FR from some guy recently who went out with his admittedly very handsome friend and the FR was mainly girls throwing themselves at his friend whilst his friend was either playing on the fruit machines or just making small talk etc, and all these cringey comments were like ''Stop running game. Do what your friend done! See how he was jst playing the fruit machines and the girls opened him? That's because he was being 'non-needy'. etc etc. Made me cringe so har… | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 05:25 PM |
| 3 | How long did it take you to get decent at PUA?As long as it takes you for your approach anxiety to get too a minimum so that you can approach in volume, and as long as it takes you so that you aren't extremely nervous when talking to girls. Could be weeks for some guys. Years or never for other guys. But game isn't some magical skill where you can trick girls into finding you attractive. Don't forget that! You'll save yourself a lot of frustration One you have the above handled, it's a matter of finding girls who are into you. Chatting to t… | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | The problem with infieldshttps://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ea7z3d/what_happens_when_a_pro_pua_meets_a_no_girl/ | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | The problem with infieldsIf a top guy is really good, he’s not going to get rejected as much as us He is though. Assuming that they are in the 'no girl' category which is entirely out of your control. The best approach with the best body langauge and the best lines etc will still be a guaranteed rejection if she's a 'no girl'. Skill comes into it with 'yes girls' and 'maybe girls'. The guy that's 'good' will certainly close more girls that are attracted to him, though. I agree with you there There's lots of trickery in … | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | The problem with infieldsyeah - the rejection compilations. They're funny | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Any nightgame infields from England that you can link me too?UK girls go out to chat with their friends and flirt with guys in their social group. Not to talk to strangers. They tend to find this very strange to have some random dude come up to them and chat (although she'll give you a shot if you are her physical type) American girls talk to strangers like it's the norm | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 03:57 PM |
| 2 | The problem with infieldsthey took their channel down years ago. It wasn't much to look at so you're not missing much. It was about an hour long. Was at night time and he was approaching girls on the streets. Uncut At one point, a group of girls who he opened a few times more or less threatened to get him beaten up lol Other approaches were just fast rejections, or girls just not engaging him in convo at all which is typical, but most PUA's delete these sets. There was another harsh/rude set later. I think she was even … | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 01:24 PM |
| 4 | The problem with infieldsAll your favourite pro PUA's get rejected just as much as you do probably true, tbh Did you ever see Kong of simple pickup do his 'one night uncut' vid? Just him opening girls in a completely uncut vid. He got rejected I think on ALL approaches. Brave of him to releate that vid at the time, tbh lol | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Test out the main PUA methods to see which is the bet for you with the following lines/examplesTodd V: Open her with something like: ''Hi. I had to stop you and find out whether you were as intriguing as your look suggests you might be or as sweet and innocent as your expressions indicate you could be. Hey i'm Todd. Say hello to the cute boy'' - then say ''I have to go in a second to meet my friends (ftc) but what is your story?'' - From there establish 'premise' and be like ''I can't work out whether you're a good girl or whether you're the most trouble i've seen in quite some time but I… | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 09:51 AM |
| 1 | If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.And? | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 10:34 PM |
| 3 | If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.some will be. You just need to keep approaching. Sometimes even a hot girl will be interested! I'm not the best looking guy, but I remember the night I pulled a teenager (half my age). Very hot! And that night i'd been rejected maybe 20 times by uglier girls. But this teenager just seemed to think I was hot before i'd spoke to her despite no other girls in the bar thinking that! I banged her at her parents house about 30 mins after opening her! (you could almost argue she opened me tbh) | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 06:00 PM |
| 18 | If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.Sorry, I wanted to write 'not to'. I am completely with you. Attraction isn't a choice. Ah. Yeah. We agree then lol Like. I'm not even a game denier! Game exists. Social skills matter. Being full of charisma etc means you'll bang a larger percentage of attracted girls than if you were super boring etc. My issue is with these guys approaching hot young girls. Getting ignored/insta rejected, and then these poor bastards are told like ''Wait. Dude, you're supposed to odisqualify her and tell her th… | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.If this was true short dudes would get no girls at al some girls will prefer short guys. (like how some guys like fat/BBW girls etc). And some girls are just ugly themselves and will settle for a short guy etc Looks do matter to women but not as much as to men They matter the same for men and both equally. That much is obvious | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 05:23 PM |
| 3 | If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.Correct. There's never been any proof of someone opening a girl who is like ignoring you, telling you she's not interested etc etc who then takes her home and bangs her. (other than 'anecdotal' online stories of the 4ft tall guy with no arms who's 65 years old who opens the 18 year old stunning cheerleader at the bar who initially rejects him, but he negs her etc and then she starts chasing him and he takes her home lol) In terms of infields, the closest i've seen is Julien who opens a hot girl … | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 03:50 PM |
| 26 | If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.IMO your game helps you to not fuck up with girls that are already attracted to you 100% And to to get a girl attracted to you. No. The attraction part of the equation is almost entirely out of your control. You can neg and tease and do everything that falls under 'game', but if you're not her physical type, it won't make her 'attracted' and make her want to sleep with you. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dxb3o3/a_way_to_think_about_the_numbers_game_looks_and/ http://aaronsleazy.blog… | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Does this stuff actually work?IN a word, 'no'. lol - At least not how it's sold to you. one can't force attraction in a girl. The tips and tricks you've heard of are things like 'negs' and stuff. But if a girl isn't into you, negging her or telling her a DHV story or guessing what number she is thinking of etc isn't gonna make her want to bang you anymore than if an ugly girl tried that shit on you lol 'Game' is more about getting better at closing girls who are already attracted to you. (which lots of guys fail to do) The p… | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | little Field reportFeels so far like game works, but only on girls that are kind of into you, and who are also social and friendly etc This is basically the big secret in the industry that nobody wants to tell you because they want you to buy their book where, with the right sentences, you can bang any girl you want like a super power :) -As if you can magically force attraction in girls if you remember to do the correct 'steps'. If you knew how much the 'pros' got rejected, your whole worldview about this stuff w… | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 11:53 AM |
| 3 | On a scale of 1-10, how much do you think good looks matter in seduction game? Any girls' opinion?They are essential. It doesn't mean you need to be a male model, but if she doesn't think you're good looking, you have zero chance. You can't 'game' a girl into be sexually attracted to you. There's so much feel good fantasy bullshit out there and I honestly feel it causes more harm than good! Girls care about looks exactly the same as we do. That's the best answer. So as much as you care about looks when it comes to banging girls, she's the same when it comes to banging guys | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 12:37 PM |
| 3 | FR saturdaythey were all 'no girls'. Nothing you can do about that. Keep approaching until you find the hot 'yes girls' | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 12:15 PM |
| 4 | What are your personal negs/disqualifiers/attraction building lines early in the convo?Lots of PUA's don't neg/disqualify her at all. I don't think it's good game. Certainly doesn't seem necessary if you've seen people like honestsignals, street attraction, evolutionDaily etc. Every open is friendly and certainly no negs or disqualifiers. It comes across as cheesy. A hot girl knows what's up! If she thinks you're ugly, she'll use the neg/disqualifer/tease as an opportunity to get away from you or just humiliate you lol When someone negs a girl and she chases him, she'd have chased… | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you make out with random women?It's not about 'practice'. You are either her physical type or you aren't. If you aren't, no amount of negs or teases or DHV's or self amusement etc will cut any ice i'm afraid. Everyone already knows al the lines and theories and can try this stuff for themselves. Look at any pull in an infield. Always a very receptive girl who was into him. Nobody has ever 'turned' a girl using magic game from her thinking 'Ewww...he's ugly' to desperately wanting to bang him lol | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Are PUA's legit?Game doesn't work on girls who aren't already attracted to you. The same way a girl who you thought wasn't hot couldn't seduce you | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 10:15 AM |
| 0 | Stop living a lie: seduction is all about looks.lol. PUA always calls everything a 'self sabotaging belief'! haha. PUA: Girls don't care if a guy smells of dog shit normal dude: Nah, of course they care the same as we do! PUA: That's a self sabotaging belief ;) | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Stop living a lie: seduction is all about looks.Women are less attracted to looks than guys are Nah. It's the same as us guys, tbh | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 10:37 PM |
| 5 | Can we really master the art of seduction?A large part of it IS bullshit, tbh. People wanna sell you a dream. 'Just apply a neg here and a DHV there', or 'just self amuse' or whatever, and you can force attraction in a girl who thinks you're ugly!! There's lots of silliness in PUA. The 'girls don't care about guys looks' stuff is up there with the flat earth society. I do believe in 'game' though. Social skills matter. A complete lack of social skills (game) 'can' mean going home alone, even if the girls thinks you're handsome for examp… | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Mixed feeling about using pickup techniques. Any advice?You don't need to feel guilty about it because it doesn't actually work like in the books lol! You can't just use a push pull line and a neg on a girl and now the girl who thinks you're ugly wants to sleep with you! So don't worry. Go out and use push pull lines on super hot girls and see for yourself if it leads to them being attracted to you. After you see the results, you won't have any need to feel guilty ;) | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 10:53 AM |
| 1 | New opener that I just unlocked from leveling up in the fieldlol | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 12:06 PM |
| 1 | FemaleDatingStrategy on MysterymethodDon't forget that mystery himself isn't good at getting girls https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuceTz9gZRQ&t=15s Just go direct. Save time. One can't MAKE a girl attracted to him. She knows within less than half a second | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 12:04 PM |
| 1 | FemaleDatingStrategy on MysterymethodYeah, I keep seeing people on seddit advising mysterymethod recently; ''Just neg her if she's not attracted to you, bro!! Then she'll chase'' kind of stuff lol Funny how it's made this comeback on seddit. Seddit used to unanimously hate MM!! lol. For me, I always felt it was weird and the tactics obviously weren't able to force some girl to wanna have sex with you because you 'negged' her lol, but it was confirmed when I stumbled upon some of his infields! That is clearly a guy who isn't that gr… | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Does this happen often to attractive people?https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8o8os0/frnight_out_with_my_handsome_mate/ That's what happens if you are very good looking. I don't imagine that would ever happen in the day time, though! I think it's almost unheard of gor girls too approach and compliment on a guys looks in the day at the mall or whatever! But in bars and stuff. Sure (not me, but I have good looking friends) | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Questions about Mystery Methodhttps://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/45t7xh/game_doesnt_really_work/?st=k3h70mc6&sh=baf29f67 But yeah, it's easy to go and and test MM for yourself. You'll have your answer. It's not difficult. But if it worked, we'd all be out banging victoria models and super hot celebs every night lol. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 11:16 AM |
| 1 | ''Is your hot friend single?''After she kept hinting she wants to fuck him, you Should have replied ''Look at him! He's a 10. Sorry but you honestly haven't got a shot with him. He tends to only bang super hot girls i'm afraid'' Give her some of her own medicine ;) | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Has the idea of 'seduction' been relegated to folklore?Then if I feel she's open to me Shouldn't you be MAKING her 'open to you' with your 'seduction' skills, though? (otherwise it's not really seduction but just hitting on girls and seeing which ones are 'yes girls', no?) | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Has the idea of 'seduction' been relegated to folklore?Who has 'mastered game' in your opinion? Mystery? RSDTyler? Julien? They all get rejected tonnes! (and admit it) Who's not to say that when they pull, they are actually just pulling girls who were already into them and so didn't actually 'seduce' them. How do you think you MAKE the hottest girls want you sexually out of interest? What do you say? | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Had my first of couple approaches during the daySounds as good as any other persons game. Just gotta keep going now until you find the yes girls Good luck | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 10:00 PM |
| 5 | Folding under pressureIt's because you don't want to lose the validation. She's looking at you. Checking you out. You know she likes you. It Makes you feel good!! You don't want to open her and risk losing that validation so you don't approach so you take your warm fuzzy validation and walk away | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 01:19 PM |
| 2 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in public100%!! I suggest you make a thread on this lol Culture and logistics is like the missing piece in terms of why so many disagree about everything on here in terms of 'game'. I live in the UK but have spent a lot of time in the US as I have family there, and socially, it's a different world! IN the UK people are largely hostile and suspisioucs of strangers and it's like pulling teeth to keep a convo going with a girl who REALLY doesn't want too engage. US is like a dream in comparison lol | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 09:19 AM |
| 6 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in publicBut for instance in the last month I approached 8 girls. I had sex with 7 'Fess up! Either you look like a young DiCaprio, or you're selling something (PUA course etc)!! haha | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Is 'Whatever floats your boat' a rude phrase?Mildly passive aggressive in that context lol | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:35 AM |
| 1 | looks do matter Stop lying to yourself.They're not attracted to Trump - they just hope to get some of his money. Id fuck Rosie O'Donell if I thought I could get 500k out of it lol | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 06:30 PM |
| 0 | Is there some secret code I don't know about...?The community just realised that it 'worked' when girls were already attracted to him. And it didn't 'work' if he wasn't her type. (he gets rejected as much as the next guy) | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Is there some secret code I don't know about...?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuceTz9gZRQ&t=11s lol i agree. His stuff was just BS inhindisght. You can't 'game' a girl into wanting to bang you if you aren't her type. It's a numbers game. Negs and stuff will just get you laughed at if she doesn't think you're hot | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 06:38 PM |
| 3 | looks do matter Stop lying to yourself.Looks matter the same for both sexes. Luckily, there's some variance in 'taste' so it's all about playing the numbers game until you open a girl who thinks you're hot, even if you aren't traditionally handsome (them girls are out there. I've banged a few beautiful girls and i'm on the ugly side) | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 02:24 PM |
| 2 | TOM TORERO, TODD VALENTINE, FAKE INFIELD IN THE PUA INDUSTRY?could it be that the reality is much different than the "techniques" you're being thought to believe work all the time? I think most people know what's up nowadays. Not to say 'game' doesn't exist (social skills certainly play a role - mainly in terms of the fact that having no social skills will likely lead to NOT getting laid even if she thinks you're hot), but the general/'original' idea that was sold to the gullible, whereby if you know the right things to say and learn about push-pull and s… | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this whole 'self help' industry that PUA's are gravitating towards?Yeah, there's also meditation, telling yourself that you are amazing in the mirror each morning etc etc. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?Be good looking and have fairly low(ish) standards! lol (not me, but I have a few friends who have banged hundreds) | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Men over 40: Adjustments to The Approach?Hottest girls are usually 18, and they get difficult once you're over like 25, but still possible if you open enough of them in my experience!! In terms of opening, It depends what age group you're going for. If much younger, I'd advise more indirect. If you're going for girls within your age group, I don't think it matters and you don't really need to adapt whatever style of game works for you | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Is attending a college major with mostly girls the ultimate advantage?I've always had a kind of 'fear' of this; basically a fear of being in a 100% 'IDEAL' environment, and not having any of the girls being attracted to me! I'd probably need to speak too a therapist to understand it properly lol! It's like I imagine being extra frustrated about being around so many cute girls, and having lots of unreciprocated crush's! haha edit: writing that post made me dig inwards a little bit. I think it might come from memories of being in college with tonnes of absolute stun… | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 09:13 PM |
| 9 | Essentials of Natural Game: The 4 Pillars of a Sexy Worthy VibeI think it's unusual that we have this thing called 'game' where all of the experts disagree about everything. Like, you can use 'natural game' where there's basically no rules, and there's technical game where you need to know stages and have lines for each stage and make sure you do various 'things' like disqualify yourself, false time constraint, neg, cold read etc etc It's like imagine someone saying, ''Ok, when working out equations you can either use BODMAS (Brackets, orders, division etc … | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 07:48 PM |
| 21 | It isn't even about being top 20% for Tinder. It is more like being top 3-5%.daygame is just tinder offline lol. Approach girl, see if you're her type, if not, move on | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Should I have escalated more?Yeah, I thought the same. Other guy said the fact we were kissing in the club and then she invited me to her house means that she was obviously super interetsed, and that I should have just escalated much much harder (especially in the morning) Never mind On to the next. Next time i'll try hard to overcome my inhibitions and escalate much harder if that situation happens again. I'll find out for myself whether he was right or not lol cheers | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here seen that pick up video with the super confident guy?They don't | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How to ask for a kiss non-verbally?of course it kills the vibe etc. But men are taught now to always get verbal permission or risk being charged with sexual assault. I wish I could link you the program I saw the other night on BBC but I can't even remember the title, but it was lots of interviews with feminists etc and was basically an instruction guide for men | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 02:51 PM |
| 4 | Are people looking for unrealistic 'advice' or are we just useless as a sub?!What about if, instead, the question was ''There's 20 new super hot girls who started at my temping job! They're all like 9's. I'm told i'm a 4 in terms of looks. How can I get one of them??!'' Would the advice be the same? i.e - 'We can't help you get any of them girls as it's not about getting any particular girls' I take it you're more of the opinion that it's just about having a good job, lots of hobbies etc, and then then it'll be kind of easy due to them sensing how happy in life your are … | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How to ask for a kiss non-verbally?You still need verbal permission on a date. Always, in fact. That's how things are now. Times have changed | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 11:51 AM |
| 3 | How to ask for a kiss non-verbally?trying to kiss someone without getting a verbal permission first. People are getting to sent to jail for it in teh UK lol | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 01:41 PM |
| 2 | How to ask for a kiss non-verbally?I think that's considered sexual assault nowadays in this crazy PC feminist world lol | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Realization about low social skills with girls i háve already slept with or with People i know and meet often.Wow - I have something fairly similar. Talking to girls i've either met in bars before, or even girls i've slept with from a one-night-stand, I literally have nothing to say to them lol I've already asked about their name, age, what they do bla bla the first time I met them i've already done all the cold reads and teases and stuff I can think of then, too It's weird. I literally often don't know what to talk about with these girls lol. It's happened a few times now. It's like they're 'semi stran… | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 08:28 AM |
| 1 | How to properly take a break from gameWhy are you taking a break? Too many rejections? Personally, when I am feeling super dejected from nothing but 'no girls' who aren't interested, I just stop approaching girls or reading any PUA stuff and try to dive into hobbies and stuff to distract me for a month or 2 Then come back and keep approaching and repeat the cycle lol | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Advice on approaching and talking to women.Let's see Paul Alan's card.... | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Something that holds me back: I legitimately have no idea if women find me attractiveOf course. You're agreeing with me | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Something that holds me back: I legitimately have no idea if women find me attractiveescalate on the ones you like and find out If your admittedly 'good looking' friends get approached and you don't, they're probably a lot better looking. I know them feelz. My main wingman is a 9 and has legit hotties opening him everytime we go out and trying to bang him without him barely speaking (even though 'girls don't care about looks'!! haha). Whatever. It is what it is. Doesn't mean you can't hit the odd home-run though and score with a pretty girl who thinks YOU are very handsome. Girl… | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I buy the SYSTEMBYTODD?you want streethustle? Tom Torerro? | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Stealth attractionHe's a very good looking guy who also had club connections. I don't think he has much 'game' to be honest | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I buy the SYSTEMBYTODD?How much does he want for it? | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Any guy can get any girl if his game is good enough! /sA lot of grief happens thinking this game is just about skill when in reality some women pick some men "just because" I completely agree with all of your points, especially the one I quoted. I don't think people realise how destrcutive this laughable idea that game is some sort of jedi mind trick is lol Truth is, 10/10 'game' will increase your chances with any particular girl by a few percent. That's it. There's no magic line or 'technique' that you can use to FORCE attraction in someone. I dro… | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Should I go after a girl despite not matching with her on tinder??They don't have physical standards lol, of course they do. haha. Even women her on seddit have confirmed this Don't believe everything mysterymethod tells you. Girls are just the same as guys when it comes to attraction. She needs to find you attractive looking | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Any guy can get any girl if his game is good enough! /swhat's wrong with showing his teeth? YOu mean because they aren't nice teeth? That doesn't matter. Girls are like blind when it comes to looks. They don't care about looks. Haven't you heard? /S | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Any guy can get any girl if his game is good enough! /sThat's different. I'M talking about sex without paying for it. Obvously you can use your money and be like ''If you bang me, i'll buy you a car'' but that's not 'game'. That's just buying a hooker. We can all do that lol | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Any guy can get any girl if his game is good enough! /sbut you can garuntee that you can get a girl similar to any one specific girl. lol, no. If she isn't physically attracted, you're out of luck | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Any guy can get any girl if his game is good enough! /sPretty much agree. luckily, almost nobody really teaches or believes that dangerous idea anymore. (Although I was speaking to some teenagers on disscord recently who are probably virgins but claim they could bang 100% of girls they approach now because they're watched Max's 'the natural' :)) Most modern PUA theory laughs at the idea that you can bang any girl you want if you 'learn game' lol. (especially since outergame has kind of been reduced to almost 'be yourself' or maybe use the odd 'pushp… | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 11:56 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong on Tinder?As per mystermethod, Negs ARE jokes lol. (jokes at her expense. A 'tease'.) You called her high maintenance as a joke, but it was a negative thing to say about someone. i.e a 'neg' lol | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Should I go after a girl despite not matching with her on tinder??Worth approaching, but the fact she didn't swipe right means that you're probably not her type, so your odds would be like 1 in 1,000 with the best game in the world lol Same as how you wouldn't bang some girl in a club that you didn't swipe right on Still. Fuck it. Go for it. I've approached hot girls who i've swiped right on before. Never got them, but still approached lol | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong on Tinder?The gamer girl got mad you called her high maintenance lol lol, yeah 'game' is all good in theory (neg, disqualify yourself/her etc) but in practice, when you actually apply it, most 'game' does more harm than good haha (IRL too. not just online) | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 07:21 PM |
| 0 | Why you can't just tell women you like them (and when you can)True. Good looks gets you 'attraction'. Now all you need is 'comfort' (ask her about her family and other boring shit) and then 'seduction' (escalate) and it's a job done (using mystery's model) I don't know why seddit thinks girls don't care about looks lmao. I work with hot young girls in an office who browse various hot guys insta all day. Looks is basically ALL they care about lol | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 07:26 PM |
| 7 | Why you can't just tell women you like them (and when you can)Hiding that you want to fuck and pretending you like her only because of "something funny she did" does not get the pussy That's basically what indirect game is all about though. Not showing your intent straight away, and qualifying her (making her think you want her for her 'personality' etc) Not saying I agree with it btw, but lots of people succeed with indirect game However - I think it's all irrelevant. Both direct guys and indirect guys who do everything COMPLETELY different get laid IF th… | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 02:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A Red Dress and a Bathroom Stall2 in one night! Never heard of that before. You must look fucking good lol! Well done! | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here seen that pick up video with the super confident guy?Yeah, apparently (according to the mods here when I posted a few thatwasepic vids of them hitting on girls) | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here seen that pick up video with the super confident guy?Dude, don't shoot the messenger. That's what the mods here say. I've had them sort of vids deleted on here because apparently they are all fake (according to the mods here). But I Agree that if that's the case, PUA infields are fake too (but they ARE allowed) | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 08:43 AM |
| 0 | Has anyone here seen that pick up video with the super confident guy?Doesn't ring a bell. Some kind of prankster vid? (you mentioned college campus. They always do their stuff there) They're not allowed on here as apparently they're all completely fake | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Worth flying to another island to fuck a 10/10?upload the screenshot of the convo | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Many of you told me yesterday women are mostly polite when they reject romantic advances. I woke up to this this morning, and it was posted by a guy who had gathered courage to talk firstEver heard of “how are you?” or “What’s up?” lol, people get berated on seddit for using them sort of 'boring' openers everyday. If he'd have used that and got ignored or whatever, I promise people would say 'she always hears that?!! She's a girl online and you opened her with 'what's up!?''. haahahaha Whats wrong with you?!!'' However, them sort of openers are fine if she's into you lol | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Can you non-physically seduce a woman? If so, how?how do you define 'seduce'? like, do you think with physical touch, you could make a girl sleep with you who didn't think you were hot/attractive? Would she even LET you touch her? lol | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | My minority friends complain about race and now my pale redhead friend complains about being too pale. Who has it easy again?I'm not sure about that, tbh This female poster doesn't seem to think so, anyway https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dj64z8/everyone_you_dont_have_a_girlfriend_because_you/f4311ac/ | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 12:55 PM |
| -3 | How do you escape being part of the 30% of the 18-30 incel group?I don't think lifting really plays much of a role, tbh. Must be tonnes of incel guys who go to the gym. Just don't be super fat or super skinny. And 'game' only works if she's physically attracted to you | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 09:22 AM |
| 2 | how to get over hook-up nerves?I'm guessing it was mostly due to my looks Interesting. We get told a lot of shit on this sub about girls not caring about looks lol. Good stuff bro. Hopefully you'll be more relaxed next time (maybe more foreplay too?) and you'll be OK | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 08:47 AM |
| 1 | My minority friends complain about race and now my pale redhead friend complains about being too pale. Who has it easy again?tall, tanned and HANDSOME! | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 08:29 AM |
| 1 | how to get over hook-up nerves?I just got out of my first relationship a couple weeks ago and decided to rebound. I met a girl at a club, and she came home with me How'd you manage that so easily and quickly out of interest? You a PUA? Just handsome? i'm curious. How did it happen? | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Scared of failing so I don’t even tryI legit just went to a club for the second time, and some girl came up to me and asked if I wanted to go home with her and I did Girls don't care about looks, bro. Just kidding!! ;) - good job! | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Are US people really this friendly?!true :( I hope to go one day. My friend has been there for the last week to hit on girls and I can't wait to hear if he had much luck as he struggles quite a lot here with cold approach | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Men who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?I don't think he'd have much insight. It's just genetics. Girls want to bang him as soon as they look at him. From that point, it's kinda hard to fuck it up ;p; | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 09:37 PM |
| 0 | Men who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?Extremely good looking or very low standards! I know a handful of people with ridiculous slay counts and that seems to be teh pattern lol. (and sometimes it's both. i.e - Some really good looking guys will bang tonnes of semi-hot/butterfaces/chubby etc girls because it's literally as easy as ordering pizza for them) I do know one slayer who is very picky, though. Only bangs very young (16-20 ish), very hot girls, even now, and he's like 32 lol. Probably about a 400 slay count. Dude looks like he… | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 09:32 PM |
| 6 | How to Mind Fuck a Guythat's what girls say about us and 'game' lol. | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 05:00 PM |
| 0 | Are US people really this friendly?!cool | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | I have 0 game and I don’t know what to do.Do you have experience with social anxiety? Do you think mnedication is the answer? | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Alcohol makes me way more charismatic. How do i improve my sober self ?If you need alcohol to feel better, you’ve got some anxiety that needs to be worked on Do you have much experience with anxiety/social anxiety? Do you think medication is teh best route or some sort of theray? (I really don't have faith in therapy) | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 12:17 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to a girl who got offended when I playfully accused her?LOL - I often seem to get the totally 'wrong' response when I try to actually 'apply what i've learnt' in terms of game and so accuse a girl of being 'trouble' or using a neg or a cold read etc. Sometimes I think game is a big inside joke lol | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Anxiety turns me into a complete idiot.Does this mean one doesn't need 'game' if the girl thinks you're good looking? | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 12:22 PM |
| 2 | UK teen facing jail after he touched a girl whilst trying to befriend herKid didn't get the memo: https://memeguy.com/photos/images/lookin-good-susan-213969.jpg | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 05:59 PM |
| 6 | UK teen facing jail after he touched a girl whilst trying to befriend herI read it as SHE said 'stop'? Either way, it's pure madness. Maybe girls just wanna be like their favourite celebs who many of whom had told their own stories in this 'metoo' movement - so girls take any opportunity to create one of their own to be like their favourite 'influencer' lol He's just a shy kid who googled 'how to make friends' - not, 'how to rape a hot girl' lol. Should have been at the very most a warning from an officer. The fact it's gone to court is madness. Reading field reports… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Wtf is wrong with me?Are you saying you never actually 'make a move' and escalate? Might be a fear of losing that validation | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Do not tryI like the idea of negs and stuff, but I find that (at least in the UK) if you use them too close to the open (before you've built rapport) they can go HORRIBLY wrong lol. Maybe it's a UK girl thing! What sort of 'push pull' lines do you use directly after you open? Also, i've learnt that assumptions are really no 'better' than questions. Certainly RSDJulien agreed with this and said it was just some weird, wrong PUA 'rule' and that he asked tonnee of questions straight away I guess there's no a… | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 07:41 AM |
| 2 | It seems obvious but What does flirting means?breaking rapport | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 10:43 PM |
| 5 | Do not tryI was thinking about something a little bit like this earlier. When i'm trying to actually ''run game'' like tease, push pull, spike emotions, DHV, cold read etc, it never works. But ironically, when I lose faith and decide 'game' is a load of rubbish and to just be 'normal' (open normally like 'hey' and then 'brek the rules' by asking dreaded ''interview questions'' etc - where apparently I should be spiking her emotions and negging and cold reading etc, I tend to do much better) People often s… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Do any of you guys actually pull from day game?lol, no. People meet though social circle and stuff. It's not the same as a classic daygame 'cold approach'...like....at all lol | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you guys actually pull from day game?I only ever do night game (and have some pulls) - However, I belong too a whatsapp group of daygamers. I can tell you that they seem to get some numbers (about half of them do, at least) but converting them numbers into sex (or even a date!!) seems to be a VERY VERY rare occurrence indeed! | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think that I have such an advantage because I’m 6’2”?Where do you live? For inspiration; My friend was a virgin at 32 and now he's 36 and he's banged like 10 girls. | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 12:47 PM |
| 0 | The end of RSD?I think RSD just realised that all the actual seduction tips (negs, cold reads etc) don't really work and so they focused more on the idea of simply having fun and 'state transference' etc | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you think 'game' works in the traditional sense?I actually agree that 'game' is USUALLY needed to bang even yes girls. However, I don't agree that game will ever land someone a 'no girl'. SHe simply not attracted. It's be like Rosie O'donnel trying to 'game' me into sleeping with her lol. Physical attraction is a pre-requisite in my experience I open girls every weekend who, after I open are like ''Sorry, You're not my type'' and they spin arond fast and walk away. There's nothing I one can do to 'turn' such a girl i'm afraid (although i have… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Age gapMy brother is 40 and dating a 20 year old. Been together for about a year. I'm in my 30's and am not dating, but i've slept with a few 17 and 18 year olds last year Just do what you want. Who cares what anyone thinks. If it's legal, it's all good!! | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Guys who couldn't get women, what changed?I have seen countless examples where not-so-looking guys who never lift a weight has stunning girlfriend Very few, I imagine, and NEVER through cold approach. Always social circle/work I have also been to night clubs looking like shit due to sweat and not having the best clothes on and still had success lol, that doesn't say much. If you are good looking, a bit of sweat whilst dancing and not wearing the best clothes doesn't matter. Good looking is good looking. You think some male model wearing… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what I'm doing wrongis that the general advice for handsome guys? Basically don't 'game' but kind of just chill? (not that i'm handsome, but curious!) I assumed you'd have recommended the usual stuff (opinion opener 'who lies more', neg her about her fake nails, stack into C shape smile routine, do a card trick, tell her 'we wouldn't get along', then 'what do you have going for you other than your looks, beauty is common', etc) I can't make that stuff work either tbh, although it's not because i'm handsome like the… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 07:53 AM |
| 2 | How are you guys doing with the cold approaches?yeah, that's fits more inline with more like what 95% of other dudes on seddit etc say (that they could bang like 1, maybe 2 of 5 super hot teenagers from cold approach, but not all 5, but they'd get all 5's nunmbers) | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 01:19 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing with the cold approaches?I'll be honest though, I don't believe them guys for a second lol. (the online PUA's I referenced from the forum) Internet is full of complete dreamers. I'd literally pay one of them 10k if he could prove (in front of me) and film himself pulling home 5 random teenage stunners in a row of my choosing lol. I know what would happen! (probably 4 fast rejections and 1 phone number/failed lay lol) But yeah, in principle I can see your point. Some celebs bang thousands of girls, and some are never tha… | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing with the cold approaches?wow. I guess i'm kind of the opposite. I'd be going on a rampage! (I don't even like sleeping with the same girl more than a few times typially) I was reading a PUA forum earlier and a large handful of the guys said that they could bang any girl they wanted too. Like more or less 100% of the girls they approach due to their 'game' (they mainly just talk about body language and stuff so i'm guessing they're more natrual/direct type gamers). I was thinking 'how aren't these guys famous? If I had s… | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 12:00 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing with the cold approaches?you must have like a 500 slay count!! I'm jealous lol - You should record infields I have moved away from opinion openers for now, but yes, I did always FTC. It's not that they 'never' worked, but they'd hook or get me insta rejected about as often as 'hey, I like your bag', or 'Hey, i'm Jack' etc. I'm currently watching this 'evolution daily' dude and he just runs 'normal game', I guess you could call it. Kind of the opposite of mystery method (he asks interview mode questions, doesn't use any … | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 11:16 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing with the cold approaches?but I'm moderately handsome Aha! lol, that might explain it tbh. I have mates who call it 'game' (they just tell girls that they're hot and ask interview questions adn then get laid) but they do'nt realise that it's basically the looks that are doing the 'heavy liftinig'. I feel this even when watching pro infields. They still get rejected lots (even mystery and Julien etc get rejected a fair bit) which makes me think that when they DO get laid, they are simply finding the girls who think that t… | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Are there any students of the Mystery method here?I think seddit tends to favour the exaact opposite of mystery method, but i'm sure there's a few here. I tried it. Hated it myself and girls thought it was as cringey as I felt is was, but I think maybe it's kind of cultural? | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 10:28 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing with the cold approaches?They react directly according to if you are doing something right or wrong. I've actually found the opposite and now think it's really about whether she thinks you're hot or not lol. I can do an identical opener and get 5 brilliant reactions (from girls who like me) and 5 harsh rejections (probably from girls who think i'm ugly lol) | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Anyone's 'innergame' improved through medication such as zoloft or some anti anxiety med?interesting. Setraline would be the first 'port of call' in the UK, I believe. Do you find it improves approach anxiety? It effects your inhibitions? (I'm not a fan of the idea of 'therapy', tbh. Honestly baffled by how that could help and don't have faith in it. i've also read CBT books etc when I was younger and didn't help. I feel like it's 'chemical' ) | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 09:08 AM |
| 1 | More Competence = More ConfidenceThanks. I guess my question must have broken a rule somehow. It was quite innocuous , but never mind. I'll ask elsewhere. Thanks for the reply! | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | More Competence = More ConfidenceAre new posters allowed to post threads on this sub? I tried but it got removed and, unlike other subs, you don't get told why. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 05:24 PM |
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