Stacking

IntrepidFoot · 2020-01-05T15:44:35+00:00

I've never found stacking (or cold reads or any other PUA stuff) any more effective than just being normal and asking questions about her and stuff, tbh.

I sometimes think the PUA thing about 'interview mode' and instead using cold reads and making statements etc basically stopped PUA's from sounding normal and made them all sound weird to the girls lol. However, JulienRSD proved that interview mode was just fine.

The set will hook just fine with just being normal as long as she's attracted to you and your subcommunications aren't terrible, and it won't hook if she's not into you, no matter how much you stack

But the structure is pretty easy. It's like you tell her what you noticed about her. Try to make it 'funny'. (London day gamers often used animals, so if she had on pink, you'd say something like ''I saw you there walking down the street like a big flamingo'' etc). Then you cold read, and make an assumption about what she does for a job ''you look very creative - I think you're an artist'' etc

But yeah, I ended up dropping most 'game' from my game if that makes sense lol. I realised it's all kind of irrelevant and only serves to put you in your head, at the cost of your body language and stuff

MrMemper · 2020-01-05T16:59:52+00:00

All that PUA stuff is just going to get in the way. YOU are the most powerful asset you have. Not some tricks you learned up your sleeve. The biggest thing you need to do is dig inside yourself and find out what you’re afraid of and why. Dismantle it. Understand it. Then stop reading and ACT despite your discomfort. It will only shrink from self knowledge and repetition. No book or video will help you do this. You are your own problem but you are your own solution.

The thing with all that dating coach stuff is that they are trying to sell you something. Sell you a quick fix to a surface problem. But the problem is like an iceberg. It’s essentially selling you material to either manipulate her or to win her approval. Both are shit.

Also, let’s say you get good with PUA tactics. Presenting yourself falsely bc PUA is a skill, it’s not who you are. How long will you be able to wear a mask? An hour? What if she sleeps over? You gonna keep it up for two days? A week? What if the two of you develop something substantial? There isn’t enough “material” to keep it up forever. Eventually you will have to drop the tactics and then you are left with your undeveloped sense of self. Your true self will be exposed eventually and neither party will be happy.

Stop with the YouTube nonsense and books. Know what you stand for and accept that most women won’t like it and a few will. But at least you are true to your nature. But you gotta know what that nature is.

GeeseCTM · 2020-01-05T18:41:15+00:00

Here you go. I don't know how long I'm going to keep this up, but you can read it for now.

I would learn routines and instead of stacking keep them in your back pocket and learn to communicate fluently.

Use routines to fill in the blanks, but learn how to riff. Here's an article on how...

https://creatingtheman.com/blog/f/i-dont-know-what-to-say

ihaveamattbonner · 2020-01-05T15:37:44+00:00

Look up Tom torero books.

Title	Stacking
Author	Reb00t018
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	January 5, 2020 3:32 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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