There's a lot of different ideas about what's the best way to come up with things to say with a girl.

Some coaches may tell you to just get out of your head and say whatever that comes to your mind by "lowering the bar".

But this is the most practical advice I can give for guys who are just starting out in this journey.

And this is pretty much what most of my friends (who all got incredible results with girls) and I did when we were still in that "developmental" stage.

Hope it helps!

https://youtu.be/tN8WGa0gj_s