So often, I hear guys from the community saying something like...

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"Oh my god... she gave me so much shit test and I passed them all like a champ!".

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But in reality, it was nothing more than a girl just "playfully" challenging him.

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Guys in the community love to make it sound like the girl was giving him a huge shit and he had to overcome these massive challenges to seduce her.

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And they start over-analyzing every little line that a girl says.

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I even see a lot of pickup coaches go into this 30 minute long video about the "psychology" behind shit tests... and make it sound as if girls are instinctively giving shits to guys to filter out weak, beta guys.

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Which is appealing to most guys in this community because a lot of them love to engage in that mental masturbation which serves no practical purpose in 99% of cases. But it only further puts them in their head when they talk to girls.

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I've also heard some dating coach say shit test is a very good sign since it shows the girl is emotionally reacting toward you.

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And I don't agree with that.

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In my experience, it has more to do with a girl's personality than anything else.

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And sometimes it can even be a bad sign in a sense that something in your approach may have triggered her to give you "shit"

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My advice is simple.

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Just remain grounded and focus on not emotionally reacting to what the girl does or say instead of wasting your time obsessing over every little line she says.

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In many cases, the fact that you are even consciously classifying certain things she say as "shit-tests" means you are already emotionally reacting to those things she said.

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Here's a short 2-minute video where I briefly touch on this subject if you want to check it out.

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Hope it helps you!

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https://youtu.be/BAj4A-TG0dc