How to keep her chasing?

WIA20XX · 2018-07-13T13:53:59+00:00

Doesn't sound like you put a price on your exclusivity. Doesn't seem like you understand game.

So from the very onset of the relationship, you're already chasing her.

The both of you are agreeing not to see other people. If she is hot, she's still getting unsolicited offers - but you aren't making offers. So throughout the relationship, she always has a soft bed to land in, and a hard dick to land on.

As a boyfriend, you have a whole new set of duties, mainly being her primary source of attention. But you're going to be cheering her up, making her have fun, walking her dog, moving boxes and heavy things, fixing stuff, etc. Even when you guys bang, you're doing most of the work to get her off.

And right now, you're automatically adapting to the role she set out for you. Like a dutiful employee, you're trying to anticipate her needs.

Just look at your topic, what set of behaviors do you have to engage in to keep her interested?

What the fuck is she doing?

Not getting fat?

Being nice?

Agreeing to not suck other dicks?

A chick that gets lots of male attention is not special. Most of them get attention.

A man that gets lots of female attention is special.

You are the valuable one here.

What is she doing to keep you around?

What role in your life is she playing?

Flip the game.

By giving her something to do for you, she invests her time, effort, energy, and emotion in to you.

Her doing things for you, and up to your standards is what keeps her around.

After you get past the crazy wild circus sex, she needs to have that level of engagement out of the bedroom.

You don't have to believe me, ask your buddies that got dumped, read some of the divorce posts with a critical eye. These guys did everything, but didn't take the girl to task.

judahman8 · 2018-07-13T00:16:44+00:00

That's a tough question but I would say the best thing you can do is keep things how they were before you started dating. For me that means no monogamy as well but I understand if you dont want to do that. Just try not to let thr dynamic of the relationship change because you started dating.

Don't get boring all of a sudden either. Just keep doing what you are doing.

fatboy-slim · 2018-07-13T02:08:34+00:00

Just make sure you are NOT available for her all the time, don’t come across clingy or make her feel she can take you for granted.

pre_internet · 2018-07-13T02:48:21+00:00

That’s awesome dude. Good fucking job. Just keep doing what your doing with her. It’s working thus far and if you need to change you’ll figure that shit out when the time is right. You can still game and flirt with other girls, but don’t fuck em. You made a commitment and you should honor it. Instead of spending the time you would be spending with those other girls do something for yourself. Pick up a hobby. Find something that your passionate about and invest in yourself.

TheLawofEmotion · 2018-07-13T04:22:58+00:00

Nobody here really answered you, so I will. It's easier for you to go to my old post, but I will give you the basics.

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8y2zxo/how_to_be_a_fucking_wizard

It's all about how you make her FEEEL! About 95% of the time, Women will follow their Emotions. A man that can make her feel is a prime meat. Women will pounce on you when you can make her feel emotion. When your friends are acting all emotional and needy, all they are doing is making their woman feel emotion. Although they don't exactly know what they're doing. You are right to say that your friends are lucky. I'm not saying that you need to act the same as your friends, but making her feel emotions is the key.

Title	How to keep her chasing?
Author	Rustaway32
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	July 12, 2018 11:24 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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