So I met this girl through friends in a group and we were talking between us cause she didn't know anyone else. Then I got her number and we started talking afterwards a little . She initiated text and was pushy about hanging out. Now get this, I'm 18 and she's nearing 17. She claims to have anxiety issues, at least that's what she told me and some other guy (but that could be her polite rejection). Long story short we hang out I ask her if she considered that a date she said yes I I'm into it , and I am. A few hours later she texts me "sorry my anxietys are kicking in and Im not ready to date anyone now, but if I was itd be you. We can still be friends though". Now she is the first girl i'd date and I don't wanna hear this was a lost opportunity. Maybe I was going to fast(nothing sexual) just in general. Or she overthought it. How will I truly know if it was me or her? Also should I go back at it as 'friends' and start over?