So, I know seddit isn't about getting that one girl, but after lots of game and back and forth between this HB9 i work with i got the "i like you" talk from her last night.

I like her too.

She's a very feisty cute girl, who bloooows through boyfriends. Guys flirt with her constantly. However, i managed to win her over by demonstrating higher value and making her chase me. Being the exception. So while we're making out last night she says "i like you. you're so different. i don't want to like you, but i do". i told her she'd need to prove herself to me if she wanted me.

However, im worried. So far, our relationship has consisted of primarily game. Now that we're starting to be more friendly and comfortable with each other, i'm turning back into an AFC. She was attracted to the alpha me, not the AFC "i love you" me. But it's hard to be alpha and un-needy when i sorta have a thing for her. I keep saying the wrong thing.

So, i need to learn how to sorta "tame her". I want her for me, but i don't know how to not be an AFC while showing her that i'm enjoying the time i'm spending with her.

It's a sorta hard question. But i feel as though if i change and show her that i want her, she'll lose interest in me (like she's done with countless guys before me) because she was only interested in what she couldn't have.

I dont see this as a LTR. Or at least, i dont think. I'm just enjoying her company and want to keep it a regular thing.

Any comments or tips on what i've been talking about would be greatly appreciated.