I can get them and sleep with them but after a few times of sleeping with them, they all seem to stray off. They either ignore me forever or tell me that they thought about all of this and don’t want to continue anymore.

Any ideas on what I should be doing differently? It could be that I’m not giving them enough love and that they just feel like they’re being used for sex. I think they all wanna be my girlfriends but they know I’m not looking for a relationship.