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How To Know When You’re Being Manipulated

Antonio_Stark

March 10, 2015

16 upvotes

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Title	How To Know When You’re Being Manipulated
Author	Antonio_Stark
Upvotes	16
Comments	5
Date	March 10, 2015 9:56 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2ylwa1/how_to_know_when_youre_being_manipulated/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-to-know-when-youre-being-manipulated.1385132 https://theredarchive.com/post/1385132

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[–]ddmhughes 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]SoldierGenerale 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

True, your gut feeling is usually right but sometimes manipulation can be very hard to detect. I had an ex-gf who would mention subtle things she didn't like in our relationship during dinner with my family. I don't know why she did this, perhaps in the hope I'd pick them up and change. For instance, if my sister was talking about how her boy-friend took her on holiday she'd softly say 'oh, .... never does that with me'. These were the subtle things I never picked up on or didn't think much of untill my sister pointed them out and how malicious the intent was.

'Your girl-friend is trying to make you look bad infront of your own family.. It shows a complete lack of respect for you and your relationship. Even if I did agree with her, I'll still pick your side because you're my brother'

Also, always be wary of when your gf starts crying during an argument. If you know you're right and she's wrong then crying could be her way out. I can't believe how many times I got suckered in with that one and forgot what the argument was about.

[–]davevd 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[+]MemeMaeztro -10 points-9 points-8 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]AwwwwYeeeee 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link