How to make it clear a relationship is off the table?

r3cluse · 2015-09-23T07:25:42+00:00

These girls got a taste of something they have been looking for so now they want to lock it down. They may have been down for casual at first, expecting you to disappoint like every other dude, but, (un)fortunately for you, you didn't disappoint. Not a terrible problem to have.

555x · 2015-09-23T06:33:08+00:00

What the fuck do I do to get these women to not want to date me?

Sounds like the wrong frame to me. They can want whatever they want, but you decide what the relationship will be. You don't need to explain anything or manage anyone's expectations.

Are you really a NK diplomat? :-)

matty25 · 2015-09-23T05:25:23+00:00

In addition to whatever you are saying to "make it clear from the get go" you'll need to back it up with your actions. Just do what single you does and don't do what relationship you would do.

Eventually you're probably going to have a DTR convo at which point you can reiterate. At that point they'll either accept that you don't want a relationship and stick around or they'll decide to leave.

If they decide to leave or are even leaning that way, don't convince them otherwise, just let them go or even give them the push they need. If you do try to convince them otherwise or nudge them back toward you that often entails starting to drift in to a relationship.

No sense in stringing them along for your minimal benefit when she can move on to what she wants and you can move on to the next one.

joecity856 · 2015-09-23T17:10:53+00:00

Find girls who don't want long term relationships they arent hard to find

Title	How to make it clear a relationship is off the table?
Author	NK_Diplomat
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	September 23, 2015 4:42 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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