hello hello!

I wanted to get some advice on dating while in a transitional period.

I recently started school for a trade program and plan to graduate within the year, with the goal of moving out and becoming financially independent. For now, though, I’m still living at home with my parents and focusing hard on school and self-growth.

I was in a relationship last year, but took a step back to heal and work on myself. I’ve been doing therapy, which has helped a lot—emotionally, mentally, and even socially (eh, somewhat).

I feel like I’m in a better place overall. That said, I do feel that need for physical connection again—whether that be casual or something that could grow into more. But I’m not sure what’s realistic or appropriate to pursue while still figuring out this stage of life.

So I guess I’m wondering:

Is it okay to date while I’m still building my foundation?

How upfront should I be about my living situation or goals?

What are some healthy ways to meet that need for connection without rushing things?

I’d love to hear from others who’ve been in a similar place or have thoughts. Happy to answer questions if it helps with advice.

many thanks! :D