Some of my reflections on how to be less creepy, feel free to add anything!

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  1. Take care of your personal hygiene and wear nice clothes. This will significantly reduce your creepiness factor. Girls like to feel attractive, but they want attractive people to find them attractive. So do your best to be attractive, and yes, there is a lot you can control.

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  1. The other part of creepiness is not understanding social cues or picking up on signals. If a girl obviously wants to be alone, you have to respect that and leave her alone. How can you tell if a girl is into you or not? It's not something you learn in 5 minutes, but this might help.

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Signs girls like interacting with you:

She smiles, laughs, touches her hair, touches you, asks you questions, holds eye contact and her body language is open.

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Signs you should back away:

She does not ask you questions, has no facial expressions, closed body language, looks at her phone, walks away from you, or asks you to leave her alone.

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Obviously, this is very simplified, but if a girl gives good signs then you keep it going, if she is not, then you stop. No matter if you are a greek god or Brad Pitt, some people will just not be interested. Understanding reading vibes feel very natural after a while and the fact that you are asking yourself how to be less creepy shows that you probably can't be that bad, since you have the ability to reflect on yourself.

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I don't think most creeps frequently ask themself how I can be less creepy. I think a part of this is just overthinking, and of course, some girls will just not like you, but you can't control everything. I would strongly advise focusing your energy on what you can control.