How to overcome looking young

T2morrow · 2013-09-10T00:58:56+00:00

Your hair can really help with age, if you go /r/malehairadvice and ask there, they can help you out. Also, this won't help with looks, but if you slow down the way you talk and move, and if you act more smoothly, it helps carry the idea that you're a bit more mature. A lot of younger people talk fast and move really fast, so avoid that?

Tallyking101 · 2013-09-10T02:30:46+00:00

I made a post about posture and dress earlier today and many people shared some very good pointers if you want to check it out.

2013-09-11T01:34:13+00:00

Its all about your attitude. If you don't have confidence about being your age girls will notice.

You say you look like you're 16, but has any girl actually told you that and turned you down because of it? You mention cashiers ID'ing, but they pretty much have to ID everyone. I get ID'd all the time (and I look pretty old for my age), and don't think about it at all.

I think this is mostly in your head, and subconsciously throwing your game off.

psyocal · 2013-09-11T01:45:58+00:00

This is not a problem, consider yourself a very lucky man! You will be well into your late 30's (maybe even late mid 40's) and you'll look like you're in your 20's. This may seem like a problem, but it's a blessing in disguise.

FeministsLoveMe · 2013-09-10T02:56:54+00:00

Dress + hair game is fucking massive. Don't clean shave either and keep some stubble if you have it when you go out, facial hair eliminates any baby-face things that I get all the time when I clean shave

2013-09-10T13:09:03+00:00

Like any other limiting belief, it's only a problem if you make it a problem.

Seriously, I know a lot of people who have the same "problem" as you, and they get laid by more than I do, with hotter girls too.

And no matter how confident I am

I don't mean offense with this, but if you're making your looks to be a problem, then you're not going to project much confidence. So when you say "no matter how confident I am", I can't help but feel that you're not being that confident in the first place.

Don't worry about it. This shouldn't even remotely enter your mind as being a problem. Obviously easier said than done, but pretty much everything is. If a girl gave me a shit test like "wow you're so young and small", I'd just joking call her a pedophile or something. Hell, you can use this situation to your advantage. If people are giving you a lot of shit tests for your looks, take this as an opportunity to practice handling shit tests, because shit tests are never going to go away.

Title	How to overcome looking young
Author	beenive
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	September 10, 2013 12:04 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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