"You don’t have to. Personally, I try to avoid them. Some may say, “she’s into you, man. She just wants to see if you’re the real deal. In a way, it’s a compliment.”

 

Well, let me preface this by saying I don’t pass on every girl the moment she gives me a shit test. I know it’s normal to an extent and I’ll oblige one or two. But beyond that I won’t waste my time. I’ll either call her on it or move on.

 

In the seduction community, it is commonly taught that there are two ways to “pass” a shit test. You either a) ignore it, or b) agree and amplify it.

 

What problems do you face when ignoring a shit test? By ignoring a shit test, you are simply covering up the shit with a napkin and avoiding the root problem: her personality. She’s passive aggressively playing with your emotions because she enjoys the power it gives her.

 

What problems do you face when agreeing and amplifying a shit test? You’re adding fuel to the fire. When you agree and amplify not only are you telling the girl that you’re okay with her shit test, but you’re one-upping her at her own game. And more than likely she won’t like that (i.e. you’ll lose).

 

What should you do instead? Assume she won’t give you any shit tests. If she doesn’t, great. If she does, relentlessly, then you’ll know you two were incompatible to begin with. Again, feel free to jump through a couple shit tests when first meeting a girl. Beyond a certain point, you’ll be able to gauge if she’s just after your emotions.

 

If you go up to a girl with a cheat sheet on how to pass her shit tests, she will sense that and in return give you what you ask for. Don’t fight passive-aggressive with passive-aggressive."