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[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 9 points10 points11 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
In the seduction community, it is commonly taught that there are two ways to “pass” a shit test. You either a) ignore it, or b) agree and amplify it.
No, those are not the only answers. The basic idea is to break her frame, if you answer within her frame you fail. You want to create a rapport break. If you try to seek rapport like this shit test failure:
Her: I'm so horny lately. Him: I can take care of that for you.
then you were seeking rapport and you blew it. So you do a rapport break, you use a dismissive tone of voice and say, "Is that all you think about? You're such a brat." That does not answer within her frame, it rejects it.
[–]Self_Motivated-7 points 10 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Those are the two most common. The point remains, these "frame" games are manipulative in nature and are not sustainable. Confident people don't deal with it.
[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 10 points11 points12 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Confident people do it naturally, without thinking. The strongest frame wins.
[–]Self_Motivated-3 points 10 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
That's part of the problem with the pickup industry: learn how to past shit tests, hold your frame, be present, exude masculinity... Put all these pieces together so you'll get laid. How about work on yourself? Forge a foundation, build confidence, pursue your passions; and the rest will follow. Secondly, it doesn't matter if "confident people do it naturally." Again, the point remains, why would you want to spend precious time on this earth hanging around low-quality girls and pass shit tests' all day? To get laid? There are healthier ways to go about meeting women.
[–]DirkDieGurke 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So if a girl shit tests you, you bail?
Literally worst advice ever.
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