How to react when you text with her!?

el_blacksheep · 2017-05-03T22:02:47+00:00

Don't overdo the texting. Use it minimally just to set up dates and such. There's too much communication lost via texting (intonation, body language, etc). Conversational texting can occur once things are more steady and stable.

If a girl is interested in you, it won't be hard to set up a date. If you suggest a day that doesn't work, she'll likely try to come up with alternatives. If she doesn't offer anything along those lines she's probably not interested.

bjlmag · 2017-05-03T22:11:54+00:00

you have to keep it flowing

No you don't.

Now what?

Invite her to do something specific. "You should come visit" doesn't deserve a response better than "I should". What did you expect?

If you keep trying to text with her the convo is boring

So don't keep trying to text with her. Invite her out in person and then get off the phone.

How do you handle people (who are interested but cold) with who you really want to stay in touch with but make it hard sometines?

Stop acting like a kid. If you want to invite her out, invite her out. This is all texting should be used for.

Woujo · 2017-05-03T22:13:34+00:00

There is this one girl who lives in another town but not too far away from you.

You shouldn't be texting her if you're not hanging out with her in person. You have better things to do.

you know she likes you a lot (she told you several times)

I hate to sound bitter and cynical, but don't look at people's words, look at their actions.

You text her but you feel like there is no real flow in the conversation and you have to keep it flowing. Example: You:"send a picture of the city you live in" Her: oh I'm in love with this city You:you should come and visit then Her: oh I should definetly

Yeah that sounds like somebody who is lukewarm at you at best.

I could give you more examples where she doesn't really say when and where she can visit you and doesn't really shows interest in a long conversation but this should do it.

Girls don't like to make plans. Invite her to come visit at a definite time/place. If she comes, great. If not, she's not interested in hanging out with you and just wants a texting buddy to make her feel special.

renee1616 · 2017-05-04T04:15:27+00:00

You're setting her up for failure with the promoted text messages. She needs a specific time and place. As a girl who's received the "come visit" text... it's flattering but it feels like you're saying it to be kind and make conversation. You might mean it as a "you're welcome to come see me anytime you want" but without a definitive invitation - time, date, place - she won't be interested.

Title	How to react when you text with her!?
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Date	May 3, 2017 9:59 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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