Hey guys, I have this girl that I am really infatuated with and she seems to really like me as well. I'm not even going to lie, it feels good, but it feels almost too good. I've had girls flake on me in the past and just go cold out of nowhere and it sucked but I just brushed it off and went onto the next. Although with the girl I'm seeing now I really like her and were really hitting it off.

The thing is I'm scared that she'll do as others have in the past. My body wants to emotionally invest in her but I just can't get myself to, as i know she could just leave. I have had oneitis with another girl before and it sucked horribly when she also decided to go cold, I actually fell into a depressive rut because of it.

How can I resist this guys? My emotions have gotten the best of me before and I don't want them to get the best of me again.