After years of meeting various kinds of people of different backgrounds over the years, I found that I clicked real well with white guys who used to be in fraternities and were into things like sports and partying for some reason. My friends are tall, white, from wealthier backgrounds, and in great shape due to years of playing sports. A lot of times, I have seen girls give them strong IOIs and when we go to bars, it's not like they get approached that often but when they do approach they seem to get a lot of positive vibes from girls. Mostly all of them are able to get make outs and have a couple of girls who are strongly into them that night.

Now I am a 5'10 guy who is of South Asian (Bengali) background (oddly enough I have a light brown skin tone and get told that I look like Kumar from Harold and Kumar a lot!) and I am in pretty decent shape myself. The thing is, I don't have that much luck with bar game and I don't nearly the level of success that my friends get. At times I have walked up to a group of girls with my friend who looks a lot like James Franco only to have girls smiling at him and not even paying attention to me.

How would I need to approach the game differently compared to them?