Title says it all. I met a guy (33M) at a wedding in september. Hes from out of town. We clicked. Really clicked. He had a girlfriend, but we made out. At the end of the night, he asked me for my number/facebook. I said no. This was as far as it was going to go, cause of his girl. Its bad karma and I dont usually do this but wtv at this point it is what it is!

Fast forward to a few months, he finds me on facebook. Reaches out. I respond but we dont speak again because he has a girl. (Thats my logic)

Few months later, he messages me and lets me know hes going to be in town, no longer with his girl and wants to meet up. We meet that same night. Hes serious and very honest about his level of interest. Says we had a connection, chemistry and he cant get me off his mind.

Now heres the thing! He didnt kiss me or attempt to make a move. We live in different cities. Time is a luxury and we already crossed that line. So why not ?

Spoke about it with some friends and they said "well, youre not very accessible. You have that friendzone vibe and its hard to make a move on you when there is actual interest". And now im torn. How do I make myself more open to this, but also not go against my nature? Also, what do you recommend my next move should be ? Ps hes back home now !