I use the same routines over and over again, but it works well I think. Better than average conversation sure.

I Use role plays over and over again, avoid to talk average questions, low push and pulls, visualize travel together to exotic places, "let's run away now and leave everything to go to bahamas to drink margaritas and take coconuts "or dream plans like drink wine in the shadows with views to the mountain.

Some cold reading like "you are the kind of girl who realize the stuffs that mark the difference, wow"

In the end this is boring, but always there are some funny variations and I improvise.