Day after day you see beautiful women on the street, in cafes, libraries, clubs, and chances to approach fly by you because of your ridiculous, but immense self-doubt. You probably read hundreds of thousands posts here about improving and loving yourself first and foremost. AND THAT'S THE ONLY THING THAT YOU HAVE TO DO. Let me elaborate.

When you find a passion in life, you concentrate on developing that passion as much as you can. You enjoy work, you enjoy people that do the same thing or have a similar mindset. You probably hit the gym or try to improve yourself in any other field that interests you (literature, music, art, writing, etc.). You don't waste your life on discouraging yourself and thinking how you're not good enough for that girl you just saw entering the room. You don't make scales and go only for the 7s. You go for the goddamn 10s and you dominate like you were meant to.

Now, I'm not writing this with no arguments or experience. My biggest passion in life is wine and I've been working with it (drinking, selling, writing) since my late teenage years. I take women out to wine bars or parks or wherever the situation allows and teach them how to properly taste wine, how to detect aromas, how to enjoy a proper glass of wine and so on. When I engage into conversation with women, I immediately know that this is my joker card if there is an awkward silence or if I don't know how to open. Of course I don't say "hey, I drink wine for a living", but most of the times I just ask "so what do you do in life" and the conversation flows by itself onward. If the girl is not stuck up and full of herself, you will succeed. Trust me. And don't even go with the assumption that she could be full of herself. Go with the nofucksgiven attitude and dominate the shit out of any social interaction.

When I succeeded in seducing women, I was praised for being passionate, direct, communicative and easy-going. I also want to highlight that meditation helps a lot and goes hand in hand with forming this mindset. You cut out unimportant and toxic bullshit out of your life and solely concentrate on bettering yourself. When you feel good, other people will sense that and enjoy being around you.

TL;DR Find a passion, develop it, dominate.