I care too much about girls

axe122 · 2019-12-15T22:41:54+00:00

Read the books how to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne, it doesn’t have much on pickup but a lot of great advice on how to handle dating in general and not appearing needy.

Every guy goes through what you are going through in high school and most wont see get with any girls until college,

Read that book and practice flirting with them with no other goal in mind. Flirt with them and leave and know they will like you cuz all the other thirsty guys will follow them around like puppies begging for their affection. Practice your flirting and teasing, understand that having things in common and being attractive is not enough for a girl to feel a spark or connection with you.

Many guys are Ben in their 20s and 30s and up think if they go on a date or hang out with a girl and they have a lot in coming with no awkward pauses and they may have even kissed her that this date went good and then they often get a text saying I just don’t feel a connection,no spark or let’s just be friends.

Don’t interview them they wanna have fun and are just normal people and want to feel comfortable and desired while having fun. They don’t like guys who suck up to them and while they want to be respected they don’t want a guy who’s so respectful he’s afraid to kiss her cuz he doesn’t want to make her feel uncomfortable. It’s a fine line you gotta walk on and it’s really an art to finding the right balance.

This is why they chase the football players and bad boys more so in high school than any other time. Those guys display qualities of independent men not boys. The bad boys don’t take crap from anyone, do their own thing and don’t need anyone so the girls feel lucky to get the chance to hang with them and this turns them on. Because the football players are built more like men and have social status the girls like them therefore they don’t feel the need to focus on the girls and they don’t try to get them because they have them whenever they want and this is attractive to the girls.

Girls wanna feel like they won the prize and beat the other girls getting you they don’t want a guy who is begging them for attention and is just happy to be with them cuz he can’t get anyone else. Especially in high school the girls want a boyfriend and status but they often don’t want guys none of the other girls want.

Basically read that book and you’ll be at an advantage over even the jocks and badbpys but even more important than reading it is implementing it. Work on teasing the girls, be playful and funny but not in the way of clown more so in the way of you know you want me but can’t have me kinda attitude and walk away. Do this with every girl in school even the ones you don’t have interest in and it will become who you are. They will start talking positively about you when you walk away and leave and then they will start thinking about you. Some of them will start waiting for you and trying to be near you more (these girls are starting to like you)they’ll start waiving at you and will generally like you and your energy pretty much I’m telling you to train for college and if you get one in high school congrats but don’t think that it’s just gonna change instantly when you go to college.

It becomes much easier but you still have to flirt with the girls and attract them so you might as well start practicing now. Good luck

volcanolairbadguy · 2019-12-16T01:57:18+00:00

Fapppp. No homo. Get a direction. Join a sports team. Plan your life. Have a path. As a lad who spent absurd time on game, I can assure you that, few if any are worthwhile long term. As in, good portion are jump offs. Pinballing off the D in teens and 20s before lookin at beta cuck provider to play house after best yrs are done. In all the time I have been in game, i can count on a hand awesome women i met. Been at pickup since before julien got banned in 5 countries lol.

Get a vision for the life you want. Money is very important. Get paper right. Study STEM or trades. Read. Read more. Check free tour. Do a BC. If you can afford it. Girls are turning 18 everyday and continue till the end of time. You sir are the only constant in your life. Start on self.

huncho_foreign · 2019-12-16T04:27:06+00:00

Build a sense of self worth and happiness. Yes, money and social status are important but you also have to love yourself. Be happy with whatever accomplishments and develop habits that bring out your inner happiness. These include working out and developing habits towards goals. The last part is the most important. When you appreciate the journey you took to reach your goals you’ll develop inner happiness that radiates towards other people. This happiness will improve your overall social interactions and develop a sense of lasting confidence.

Title	I care too much about girls
Author	altorio_sir
Upvotes	11
Comments	3
Date	December 15, 2019 10:19 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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