TLDR: Don't give a fuck and people will flock to you. Keep it real seddit!

I would like to preface by saying I'm fairly new to this subreddit, however I have learned so much about myself recently through the experiences and ideas you guys have shared.

For context, I'm a 21 year old male in college and I'm not the most physically attractive guy either. I have had low self confidence, depression, and social anxiety all of my life...while these demons haven't typically hindered my ability to make friends or meet new people or have romantic encounters with women (although I have had few sexual partners and LTRs) it has made it difficult for me to enjoy these experiences and generally be HAPPY with life.

I was already improving myself in the ways of seduction prior to finding this subreddit, but reading posts have helped to shape my philosophy of relationships.

Essentially, I want to share a story about the other night at a party. So, I showed up to this party fashionably late and it seemed like everyone was having a great time. I only new one friend at this party so obviously this was a difficult situation for me. Something clicked in my brain the other night and I just said "ENJOY YOUR LIFE." I ended up having a wonderful time, no hookups, but I made so many new friends and was the life of the party. Anytime I went to another room, everyone followed me. I had a strong social presence, because I love who I am, and I didn't give a shit about what people thought about me. I talked to anyone and everyone, and had such great conversations while building sexual tension with the people I was attracted to.