I always read posts here about the dangers of scarcity and how abundance solves a lot of the neediness that is associated with scarcity. It always logically made sense to me but now that I'm in the actual position of only seeing 1 girl I'm interested in, it is clicking on a different level on what it actually means and entails. At least I'm aware of needy behavior but ultimately I'm at the stage where it's like fake it till you make it.

But yeah after a long period of inaction, actually practicing out these concepts I've always been reading finally made me realize my potential and it's actually pretty exciting on what the future may hold if I keep it up.

This is a pretty useless post but I would just like to encourage any newbies out there to keep taking risks and remind people that you likely better than you think. I thought I wasn't really a funny person and suck at conversation but I was pretty surprised with how much I was able to make a girl laugh and have the whole interaction feel super natural