First off I love you all, you have helped me so much. Lurker for a while, poster for a week with this throw-a-way.

I used r/seduction and pretty much went on a bender with females...my confidence increased so much. I had game before but now it's just insane. I lost weight and I'm in my young adult prime. My inner game is amazing. But after a couple months of this, my high school crush came into town, and after 8 years I still crush on her pretty hard. Her brain and body is a ten, and her and I got to know each other so well during high school (but just on a platonic level.)

Instead of treating her like I was so desperate for her (like before), I just treated her like I would be fine without her. I hit on other girls in front of her and used negs....and it actually worked. The extremely attractive girl former best-friend that's moving back to my city after finishing at an ivy league is hooking up with me, a 20 year old community college grad. Things are going really well, she really is into me.

I guess my question post would be, should I keep using negs now that she is into me? I still make almost everything a joke, but since having sex, the negs seem more like me being mean than me teasing. When do I stop using negs and just be nice? does anyone have any experience with getting into a relationship after using negs?

hopefully this is an appropriate post. this is a throwaway and I've been drinking dark beer for the last hour so downvote me if it's not. stay awesome my dudes.