Just a little bit before opening or once I see the girl and that I should approach her I get a state of excitement and nervousness and it makes it high energy and all over the place and it's not uncommon that I will scare the girl. how can I be grounded, relaxed and chill while going for the open and be less excited about the set and still get her attention because that's really holding me back, it makes me talk very fast without pauses and I start to make a ton of assumption and I ask a lot of questions I kinda be overwhelming, and btw I'm not usually the loudest guy I just get into this state when I daygame