Hi guys! 22 male here, working full time in a job I love.

I’m honestly a bit lost in all this dating stuff. I do get compliments from girls. For example just recently I heard from a friend that her friend thought ‘I was pretty hot’... or tonight I talked to a girl and she says ‘he’s so cute’ (heard that multiple times) then kisses me on the cheek, then tells me ‘shes more into older guys’. I hear from another guy he thinks I’m good looking blaba. Interestingly I have heard I have a more feminine look. Not sure why but I have made out with a lot of girls already.

I’m also not anti social. I’ll go to the bar and I’ll see a girl smiling at me and I’ll will go over introduce myself. Often I go to a bar meet some people and then go to the club with them. I do think my looks help me with that. I do have to admit that I spent my uni years/high school being anti social by just focusing on academics and nothing else.

But my game is where the problem is. I just don’t get it. I don’t think I’m needy. It just pains me because I would like to make some progress but I’m getting no where since 10 months. It’s like my looks get their interest and opening my mouth kills it. A horror in disguise! Any help appreciated!