Sorry for my grammar in advanced. I am a long time lurker on this sub Reddit, and I believe this sub Reddit has a lot of value to young men and women.

What I realised when dating around and etc, If I receive myself as lower value than the girl that I am talking to, then she will not find me attractive. It’s used to be weird to me.

Let me explain, I am in my early 20’s and I’ve dated, hooked up and have had girlfriends though out my life. The mistake I did was thinking my girlfriend at the time was more valuable than me. This doesn’t mean you have to degraded or etc. No, but this would suggest you need to show her through behaviour you are more valuable than her, and you are not scared of losing her. Why? Because you have options. If you do not, act like it.

It’s a weird concept which I realised with girls and etc. This also suggest have principle. This could be anything. No ass picture from her on Instagram, no attention seeker, and etc. Do not control her but have principle.

For an example, people may disagree with me, Me personality I do not pay for the first date. I do not care, not even $1 as I still do not know her. One time, I got this beautiful Russian girl’s number on this street. I said let’s grab a coffee, I said sure. Before leaving, she texted me saying she is no an ugly girl and she said, I have to buy her dinner, I said forget it. She said “ okay, no date”. I said “no worries, take care” and ended the call and went to other girls.

She called me 20 minutes later saying get dress I have money don’t worry, and she said meet me. Guess what, she was so easy to seduce I pretty much didn’t play game or whatever within 1 hour SHE ordered a taxi back to her hotel and we fucked.

This is important factor to remember. Make yourself prize and never chase.