So I have been doing pretty good with approaches for about a month but I keep on ruining the end. I mainly do game at festival/parties and it is basically always goes like this: -I approach a girl, usually with some situational remark on something -We get a good chat going -I start doing kino up to the point where I should go for the kiss and then I don't go for it even though I know the girl is really into it.

Last night I went to a student party(I don't have my own appartment yet so I rarely can go to house parties) and it got so bad that I had gamed 5 different chicks over the night but never made a move. An example: after a lot of kino already I told a girl I had strong fingers because I played guitar and kind of showed of my fingers and made her feel them and held my hand and such. It was really sexual tinted of course and I could tell she was interested but at at those points I always start to hesitate asking myself questions like "Nah I don't think she looks good enough/Wow this is way too easy this cant be/she must be doing this with every dude/Wait didn't she have a boyfriend?" and such.

I am a virgin 19yo(I had my first make-out this week and that is best ive achieved this week.) And I feel like I kind of set my standard for the first girl pretty high. Like on one side I am really fine with having a girl that isn't perfect and just having fun and getting it over with but I feel like deep down I have some resistance holding me back and I don't think I can get rid of it without actually getting the first lay.

Did anyone go through a similair situation? How did you deal with it?