This might get rid of your approach anxiety. You see an attractive woman, you approach her casually you talk to her Completely openly BUT she rejects you.

Would it ever occur to you that someone close to her passed away? She's going through a messy divorce? She was just cheated on by the 15th guy?

If you were in these situations and an attractive woman came up to you and tried to get your number how would you react?

But now what would happen if she says "Hey listen I know you're not in the best mood right now. It happens. If you wanna talk..." Then she gives you her card.

Better solution right?