So I've realized what my main sticking point is... I don't know how to be social.

I've grown up really quiet and pretty shy, but I've gotten better. I can hold conversations for the MOST part... But I have problems starting them.

I can approach girls (not saying I'm great because I still need some work), but when it comes to just being social, I never know how to initiate conversation. That's why I've always preferred day game, because you don't have to necessarily be social and talk to everyone.

But with night game, I know when you go out solo, it's good to talk to everyone, to generate some social proof. I have gotten a little bit better (when I do meet a girl that's interested, usually girls that approach me when I'm dancing, I usually do ok), but I just end up getting stuck and usually don't do much.

Any tips on this would be greatly appreciated, thank you!