Everything in my life is going fine. I have an awesome job that I really enjoy, I have hobbies that I love and allow me to interact with other people, I go to the gym, I look nice and dress well. I have a good social circle with friends that I genuinely love. I can approach women to get to know them, I get approached by woman just as often which is a good indication. Buut, I really like this girl, she seems to really like me, we went to a dinner date, we talked and talked and talked, but I'm so afraid of making a move. I'm being really honest, but I never felt like this before, it seems like there's a huge brick wall between me and making a move.
It's not that I'm afraid of the rejection, I'm genuinely fine if she says we should be friends or whatever (I'll be sad of course, but I'm not afraid of it). So I think I'm just terrified of the momentary disconfort of the moment I make a move. I wonder if there are any useful resources or advice to make me face this fear. It seems that I just need a push, I'm not avoidant of conflict by any means, but it seems like it's almost never initiated by me, only when it's really necessary.
I need some help on that, I really like this girl but I need to make a move but never find the right moment...
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