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I need help opening mixed sets with private table

seddituction · 2012-11-05T20:48:21+00:00

Hi Guys, I m pretty comfortable opening in many situations but as the title says I have hard time opening sets with private table, especially if it is a mixed...

seddituction

November 5, 2012

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Title	I need help opening mixed sets with private table
Author	seddituction
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	November 5, 2012 8:48 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/12oqcg/i_need_help_opening_mixed_sets_with_private_table/
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[–]leodoestheopposite 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[Pardon the though love, I am only trying to help]

Put yourself in the situation of one of those 2 guys.

You are sitting in a private table, with a buddy, and either a double date, or 2 girls who are friends. What would make it OK for you if a guy would come in and do his magic and take one of those two girls away?

I know what you are thinking:

they are just friends and it's ok for the girls to hook up with other guys. Well, if that's the case, why wouldn't the girls be there on their own?
the guys are Beta, I can out-Alpha them. Well, here you are, it doesn't seem like you've got the required skills.
some other excuse that you want to tell yourself.

Of course, and I believe you, this girl is giving you IOI. Two ways you can go about it:

Make some playful eye contact, if she's into you she'll play along, then invite her over to where you are. Once she's there, pretend that she's there alone, indeed she's there next to you, all alone. Not it's just you and her, and you said that you are comfortable, do what you do best.
If option 1 is not working, but she is going along with the playful eye contact, approach, look at the two guys in the eyes, one at a time, then - as if you were talking to the group - say something like: hello ladies and gentlemen, I have something to say to.... turn towards her what is your name again? (the again part is important) to Jennifer here, excuse us(the us is important). Sit next to her, or lean, and whisper in her ear, * hello Jennifer, I am Leo, I could not help but notice you, and that you notice me. This is my phone # call me and we can continue this conversation when you are not with your friends.* and slip to her a napkin with your name and your phone #.

No business card, make it seem Impromptu (women love that stuff); but have the napkin ready BEFORE you approach. FIND a pen somewhere, bartenders have pens!

Get up, look at the guys Gentlemen, then turn to the girls Ladies pause I hope you enjoy your evening. pause Goodnight Jennifer.

And walk away, without looking back.

[–]seddituction[S] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks for the reply

You are sitting in a private table, with a buddy, and either a double >date, or 2 girls who are friends. What would make it OK for you if a >guy would come in and do his magic and take one of those two girls >away?

That is a big assumption. I m not trying to take away anybodies girl. The thing is you cannot know the situation until you open the set. The guy could be gay or he could be her far cousin etc. Only way to know is opening the set. Also it is not always 2 guy 2 girls set there could be 4 girls 2 guy. Should I think of the girls as their harem and chicken out? I dont think that is the way to go. I know I have to approach but I m trying to find the right way

Make some playful eye contact, if she's into you she'll play along, >then invite her over to where you are. Once she's there, pretend that >she's there alone, indeed she's there next to you, all alone. Not it's >just you and her, and you said that you are comfortable, do what you >do best.

Tried, didnt work. But that doesn't mean that she is not interested. Even they are interested the girls expect you to have the balls and confidence to approach themselves not the other way around

If option 1 is not working, but she is going along with the playful eye >contact, approach, look at the two guys in the eyes, one at a time, >then - as if you were talking to the group - say something like: hello >ladies and gentlemen, I have something to say to.... turn towards her >what is your name again? (the again part is important) to Jennifer >here, excuse us(the us is important). Sit next to her, or lean, and >whisper in her ear, * hello Jennifer, I am Leo, I could not help but >notice you, and that you notice me. This is my phone # call me and >we can continue this conversation when you are not with your >friends.* and slip to her a napkin with your name and your phone #.

I didn't like this approach. It is weak and creepy. No girl will buy into this. Ideal situation should be befriending whole group, and seduce the girl of she is free. And quit if she is not

[–]leodoestheopposite -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link