I need some inspiration

theselfreliantman · 2020-02-22T11:27:24+00:00

You need to get out there and make some friends man. If you have none really then it's unlikely your social skills will be great and thus will make meeting girls harder.

Where do you live that has nothing fun to do that's not drinking lol. Go to some meetups, join some rec sports teams. Go get some hobbies and meet people.

All the pickup material in the world won't help unless you start meeting people doing things you're into.

Just a thought! Hope it works out 😊

3927atg · 2020-02-22T07:07:20+00:00

That's exactly me.

mr_Tobbor · 2020-02-22T09:54:54+00:00

If you are over average guy regarding looks just let a girl to come to you. Just show yourself even without approaching.

2020-02-22T11:29:08+00:00

Stop pretending that you're better than 'the bullshit', for a start, and deal with the real issue by making some friends.

xxyxxyyyx · 2020-02-22T11:50:16+00:00

Hey Mate, I would suggest you to train to give random girls compliments, it makes their day better and it will help you approach girl in the future. I often walk with headphones around, when I see a girl which I like I take one out and compliment one thing, t-shirt hair or their style im general.

Sometimes it is just a thanks and a smile from them and I move on, but sometimes girls say something back and make a compliment too, these mini conversations will help talking to random girls

So last thing, do things which you like. You go to the gym, then ask girls there, a lot of girls want to be hit on, on the gym, some also don't but they will tell or show you that so don't worry Just start with a compliment again, about their training maybe, or just ask what their training goal is, then add something about you

You are interested in games go to a gaming convention. You like trains, go to a miniature shop And so on

Oh yeah mate, about the friend thing. A lot of people are super open about new friends like insane, you can actually just go to a group of guys doing whatever you like and ask them if it bothers them if you hang out with them, maybe tell them your other friends don't do this hobby or even tell them you don't have any, most people are cool about it and glad to adopt you

lifeunbalanced · 2020-02-22T12:02:15+00:00

Right away from your post anyone can tell your the worst. Your lonely and have no friends but think your above it all with the drinking and even think are the girls worth it when you never got one.

It’s a classic defense magnetism of hating everything around you so you’ll feel ok with your state of events. Basically tell yourself your life is acceptable when it’s shit because everyone else is shit.

Start by changing the mindset and then changing yourself. You’ll never get a girl being the way you are right now.

quinnmcd · 2020-02-22T13:59:29+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:

How do I approach?
How do I get a number?
How do I talk to girls at college?
How/When do I kiss a girl?
Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

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Title	I need some inspiration
Author	tac15
Upvotes	7
Comments	9
Date	February 22, 2020 7:05 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f7p5u0/i_need_some_inspiration/
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