I don't know if this is where I post this, and I'm sorry if it's not.

I was wondering if there was a way to really use my shyness to my advantage.

I've been talking this guy for a few months. We met online and, after about a week, we video chat almost every day. We really hit it off, so we decided to have a romantic weekend in a beautiful city out of the country.

Well, I've been very confident during our video chats and texts. It's not like I've been pretending to be someone else, but, when I'm face to face with somebody, I'm really shy. I've always been that girl who sits in the corner, keeping to myself. I know it stems from my insecurities. I'm not bad looking, but I'm cute at best. (me: http://imgur.com/a/JBW3y )

I really don't want to mess up the possibility of there being more fun weekends later on.