Just started watching a couple of videos from david deangelo adn mystery, and holy shit, i was so wrong. I would always try and be "nice" to girls and then expect them to come to me saying, i dont know, "hey thanks for opening the door for me! heres my number". My body language would suck too, never showing dominance, always seeking for approval. I would always try to make a girl comfortable, just focus on her. Yeah, i would be called "nice" but nothing would happen at all. I just couldnt understand AT ALL how the guys i thought were rude and arrogant were getting all the girls while i was lonely. It didnt make sense. Now it does. Its about being a man. A masculine manly man. Demonstrating that you have value, not seeking for approval. Not giving a shit.

Now i pretty much got the theory, but the hardest part i think will be going out and putting it to test. But i feel better now that i know this. I will work hard