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[–]iam-a-fuckwitAMA 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Stop putting your social life and the pursuit of women ahead of the rest of your life. Now also surely, by just my observation, there is some form of dissonance involved, why do you feel like that when you go out?
[–]iam_gheri 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't know like especially in the club while all others are chilling and having fun, there is me feeling awkward and going in the crisis
[–]PopeyeNugget 6 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
make rejection your goal. talk to different girls and pray and hope you get rejected, do this 5 times every week! stop thinking about pulling girls, baby steps!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How many rejections before you realize dating isnt for you?
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
After 14 straight rejections and being ghosted I found myself a lovely girlfriend, so keep at it trooper.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think dating isnt for me. When guys cold approach they find success within 100 approaches. I'm well over 500. You would think at least 1 girl would be open if k just talked to them normally. Nope and I'm pretty sure I'm just going to keep getting rejected if I approach more.
[–]iam_gheri -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just wanna hook up yo
Yeah like 2/3
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To get you out of your own head:
https://www.habitsforwellbeing.com/mindfulness-101-a-beginners-guide-to-mindfulness/
Might not seem to have anything to do with game, but mindfulness is incredibly helpful in the club environment, and attracting women anywhere really.
[–]NotMyBestEffort 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Look, u/iam_gheri I am not going to blow smoke up your ass.
You can be so much better than you are now that you would not recognize yourself.
It is going to take time and focused effort on your part.
Accept responsibility for your life as it stands right now. … Nope, all you. 100%.
Start to change with urgency because you realize that your life is what is at stake.
[–]iam-a-fuckwitAMA 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen
[–]argus4ever 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How old are you?
[–]iam_gheri 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
18
[–]argus4ever 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Better to lose at 18 than 24.
I look back when I was your age and remember so many missed opportunities that I didn't even realize back then. If the club ain't working, try online dating and meetup for coffee or whatever you kids drink nowadays at 18.
Just keep trying dude. That's key. DO NOT GET COMFORTABLE WITH NOT APPROACHING/TRYING. DO NOT LET MONTHS PASS BY WITHOUT ACTIVELY TRYING.
[–]olronk 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Damn that's rough lol.
I'm 28 and am in the same situation as in I've never had any woman interested in me before.
I look back when I was your age and remember so many missed opportunities that I didn't even realize back then.
I hear this a lot from people, usually from close friends.
The good thing about never having had any woman like you before is that I've never missed any opportunities because there never were any so I don't have that regret.
[–]argus4ever 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well you probably have, but didn't realize it cause your mindset wasn't right. For me, there were plenty of times a girl showed interest, since I was in middle school. The problem? I got in my own way by not recognizing the IOIs and having my standards too high.
[–]olronk2 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
It's never really happened to me before if I'm being totally honest.
I've never had any IOIs either.
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