Hey y’all, I’ve been approaching women way more than I have in the past. I’ve definitely stepped my game up w this shit in terms of the confidence & willingness to put my balls on the table.

My question to y’all is this: is it more effective to either give a chick your number or ask for her’s?

I have people wiser than me saying that you should give them your number because then the responsibility to make something happen is now immediately on them, and they have the choice to not make anything happen if they choose. Regardless if they hit you up or not, you’ll know she’s interested (or not) based on the result.

I’ve had others say that you should ask for her number because then the ball is in your court to make something happen. You are the one in control here as it pertains to an introductory message or call. You will have the potential to make something happen irl by having an interesting dialogue with her via text or over the phone, even if she was reluctant to give you her number in the first place.

Any ideas are appreciated, thanks y’all