If she has a date?

BeAFuckingMan · 2011-01-30T09:32:38+00:00

Don't think she's into you. Either she's into you or she's not into you. If you've spoken to a girl more than twice and you haven't asked her out, you're now her girlfriend. Girls tell their girlfriends about the hot date they had over the weekend (which is what she's doing).

Be a fucking man and ask her out already.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-01-30T18:26:37+00:00

Yet another shit test. As Tofu suggests, be non-reactive. If she gets a rise out of you, if you react, you are demonstrating scarcity thinking in regards to women. You are invested in her so much that you care if she's seeing other guys, even if you haven't dated her yet. An alpha wouldn't care about that one woman, he knows there are plenty of fish in the sea.

TofuTofu · 2011-01-30T06:15:19+00:00

Be non-reactive.

Also, welcome to seddit. I advise you to read more seduction materials and put them to use ASAP.

SecksualChocolate · 2011-01-30T15:21:16+00:00

She's single, so she's allowed to go on dates with other people.

Have the mindset that you're more fun and interesting than whoever she went on the date with. Go up to her next class, game for a bit, then ASK HER OUT on a coffee date for fuckssakes.

on_the_dl · 2011-01-30T12:46:01+00:00

I don't want to seem jealous or threatened

Clearly you are if you're thinking about it.

Could a girl lie about something like this as a test to see how I respond?

Yup. Mostly it means that she isn't into you. Otherwise she would hide it from you.

Title	If she has a date?
Author	puaunderstudy
Upvotes	0
Comments	5
Date	January 30, 2011 6:02 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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