I tried to walk away from a girl I liked due to her being a co-worker. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life and I couldn't fucking do it. I tried being present, and just let shit go. It was just getting to me emotionally. I learned tons of lessons when it comes to girls by far this one was a big one. I learned to just go ahead and do it. You might not get an opportunity like this one again. I know game and I write consistently about it. I can approach, get attraction, and get numbers. Hell, I even have over 40 matches on Tinder but none of that shit matters unless you can't control yourself in the present moment and make a move.

Long story short, it was her last day. She makes eye contact with me from a distance but was rather busy so I just said Hi briefly. She then finished up whatever she was doing and goes back to the office. I see her come back and stare at me again. We both walk back together talking and she starts giving me IOIs (Indicators of Interest) again. Her coming back and establishing rapport is an IOI itself.

I told myself to just do it and to just give her my number so it's her decision to contact me. I couldn't cause of others that we're around so I just said my goodbyes. She did as well but looked kind of upset cause I pussied out due to her being a co-worker. I never bought her a signal thing or annoyed her in any way. I sort of kept my distance and let her do some of the chasing.

If you know it's right, it will eat you alive inside if you don't fucking try. I had to give it a shot. I wasn't about to just let this one walk away. I go and get coffee and back and give her my business card which was way more professional and demonstrated value due to me being a photographer which I never told her about.

How I Knew She Liked Me:

  1. Face touching (Touching of the cheek, brow, or wrist) This happens every time a girl will see you. It's a hard-wired emotional response.
  2. Preening (Neck Reveiling)
  3. Strong Eye contact (No Blinking)
  4. Submissive gestures (Blushing)
  5. Fidgeting
  6. Building Rapport
  7. Push/Pull
  8. Touching shoulders