I'm a virgin, I need some help.

lonewolf-chicago · 2017-02-03T15:53:47+00:00

The virgin thing is a turn-on for chicks if you present it right. Any chick that would ask what your body count is, in my opinion, you should avoid. If they are asking that question, they have ridden the cock carousel way too much.

You seem to be on the right track, from now on strategize the following....

When will my parents be gone for a weekend so I can hit the ladies hard?
Where can I take a chick if things get heated? (Then work it out in advance)
Who has their own apt/dorm that I could go with a chick just to hang or hopefully escalate with? (then talk with them about it and come to an agreement that if you need it, they will allow you to stay there, etc.)
What are 3 things I can say to a chick that would make my virginity seem like a challenge or a turn-on? (Come up with at least 3 things to say that are funny, cute, dismissive to shit tests, etc)
Who are the types of girls that I would want to meet and where do they hang out? List out your ideal woman and list 5 places they hang out where they are approachable and you can build rapport and comfort.
Who do I know that knows at least 1 or 2 qualified females that I could hang out with and begin to date? Have a few conversations with them and see if you can hook up a few light-hearted dates "just to hang"

Those are the types of questions that get the right answers to lead to your success. Think of a question in this way for every obstacle you feel is in your way and the solutions will be mere moments away.

Remember: Your brain will answer the question you ask it, so learn to ask the right questions.

jujuonthebeat · 2017-02-03T09:35:17+00:00

Just move on campus

Sad_Sleeper · 2017-02-03T15:46:23+00:00

If you always think about being virgin well you will end up like one. i am virgin too, but i don't focus on that, i focus on everything else. Working out, self-improvement, being social, finding a better job. And now i realize that if you focus on for example having a LTR, then you will never end up having that.

"Complaining is a setback to your life and your career." So just start doing different stuff and don't think about the sex or that girls don't want to be with a virgin. Think about the opportunity to meet new girls and have some fun time with them :)

good Luck!

jediog420 · 2017-02-03T17:24:20+00:00

Get drunk and don't give a fuck haha 😂 If not then join clubs with hot girls

MindsEvolve · 2017-02-03T14:19:41+00:00

I think you're just holding yourself back through limiting beliefs.

Here are some examples of a limiting belief:

-"How can I ever have sex with a girl if I can't take them home."

-"Why would a girl ever have sex with me if they know I'm a virgin."

Dude, you have to do the WORK of going into your brain and telling yourself the OPPOSITE. Try an affirmation and some positive self talk:

-"Girls will want to have sex with me because I'm attractive and great to be around." (you can add other specific qualities to this and then repeat in your head over and over)

You have to shift that negative energy because it shows up when you're actually out there. Now listen, it doesn't fucking matter if you're a virgin with no place to have sex. I've had sex with girls in my car without ever asking them or them asking me how many people I've had sex with. It does not fucking matter.

Yes, implement more push-pull:

Say you're having a conversation and you ask what their favorite food is. If they say sushi (and sushi is actually your favorite food too) - then pull away and go "Oh no! We can't both die of mercury poisoning, who's going to raise the babies!"

PM me if you need more help.

Title	I'm a virgin, I need some help.
Author	TheOfficialLevent
Upvotes	9
Comments	23
Date	February 3, 2017 9:06 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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