So a little background:
I'm 20 male, in college. Had a break-up with my ex, an 8.5/9 (I'm not a player and I odn't have much game, but with her things just came together real well for some reason and it all worked out while we were together), recently cause she's going abroad (and I became a little bitch...). I managed to salvage some of that situation, but that's another story for now. It's been some time though, I haven't had any action, all I've been doing is hitting the gym and socializing when I can.
Anyway, fast forward to last night, I was at a party and I swear there were like 20 dudes and 3 girls there. Most of them were foreigners, with a few Navy guys mixed in for some reason. It was my friends party, a petite pretty cute girl but def. not for me.
So I walk in, made some rounds, talked to a bunch of people. Don't know why, but it felt very natural that night. Foreigners are easy for me to talk to, conversation just flows with them. So after a bit I find myself talking to this german 7.5. She's naturally had a bunch of guys around her most of the night but somehow I found myself mostly alone with her chatting it up. A couple guys try to jump into the convo but it just didn't happen, they just ended up looking stupid with no help from me.
So we talk for a bit, I take my leave and continue some rounds. Meet everyone else there... I decide it's time to move on, so I start asking around for my friend to say bye. The german sees me (she has 3 guys around her chatting her up) and asks me to go outside and chill for 5 minutes, have a cig or something, before I leave. I was a little taken aback but i found my friend, said goodbye, and went up to the german still talkin to her 3 guys (2 were Navy, one was a dude from Sweden).
I tell her I'm leaving, she hooks her arm through mine, and just leaves the guys there looking stupid as she goes outside with me. So I don't smoke cigs really, but I shared one with her and we just talked about some random stuff. Halfway through i was thinking i'd ask for her number before I left, but before I had a chance she fuckin asked for mine.
So we chat a bit about stupid random stuff. She talks about how guys keep invading her bubble, I invade her bubble imitating them and relating to her, we talk about how she hasnt smoked weed but wants to, etc... I leave, and don't really expect anything more to come of it.
Well later that night I got a text, I'll give you guys the run-down of what was said thus far (keep in mind that I decided to just say fuck-it to this, she's cute but I was so surprised by how things went down that it just liberated me from caring too much):
2:29am: Hey its your crazy stalker!:)
Me: Ahh I'm too high to respond wittily so try me again tomm!
Her: Oh,it least u remember that we had a conversation;)have fun,talk to u soon..
Today 3:39, Her: Oh, second time im initiating texting,how desperate.what r u doing tonight?signed(germann girl)
Me: Depends on how well you play your cards tnite ;-) haha
Her: hm..what would be my smartest approach now?:)
So that's where it's left off, i haven't responded but I might give her a call depending on what I'm doing tnite. I have one other girl I am more interested in, but that's another story. So I just am sitting here kinda in awe, I just don't know wtf I did to make this happen. Its not like she didn't have options, I don't know why she chose to be sending me these messages, and from here I almost don't know what to do she's been so forward. We'll see maybe I'll give an update tomm. Peace out guys.
Edit: I just texted her back about an hour after her text saying "Now what kind of guy would I be if i told you how to behave?" Hahahaha
Edit 2: We continued the convo and this is how it went down, did I go wrong somewhere (maybe she has a reddit?!)
Her: Bonus point for you.you re really making a case for yourself(is that even an english expression?)
Me: What you mean you're keeping points on me?! -1 point for you haha ;-)
Her: Being mean is like minus ten points.:)
Me: Oh well, maybe I should just go on my own way then, game over I guess
Her: You give up easily.but oh well,maybe next time...
Me: Hah, I'm actually very competitive. We should meet up at your place and then maybe go out.
Her: Actually,i just got home&im kinda tired so i dont know if i ll be able to do anything tonight.not very fair,i know,wasting all ur messages...
Me: hahaha +1 point for being a tease
I could have waited too long between texts, not that i did that on purpose. who knows?
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