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[–]Twobithatter 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like your not showing sexual interest in the girls. If she’s jumping all over you and everyone is noticing it but your still not closing, then she’s probably feeling like your not interested in her. Like some else said create that physical contact and also create sexual tension
[–]oreo6362 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Maybe Im afraid of making the wrong move when it comes to closing
[–]Twobithatter 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You might be shy in front of your mates. Next time you have a girl with you like that and your around other people. Isolate her so it’s only you and her alone. This way if you do make the wrong move it’ll be away from people. But if she’s that invested in you already you’d have to do something pretty dumb to have her walk away
[–]oreo6362 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not taking advantage of that opportunity is probably what made her walk away
[–]wrenagade419 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
ok but then what happned
[–]oreo6362 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
She went out to the club to meet up with some of her friends. The rest of the guys and I stayed.
[–]wrenagade419 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
she didn't invite you or anything you didn't like make any kind of physical contact with her on your lap?
[–]oreo6362 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I rubbed her leg lol And we were talkin when she was on my lap. No cause I had already been drinking and was high af. What sucks is that earlier that day she asked me what I was doing that night. Then she showed up out of nowhere and was on me like stink on shit!
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude.... say, “hey I gotta show you something”, then take her to your room. Then say “what do you think of this lamp? It’s a dope lamp right?” And she’ll say yes. Then make eye contact and go in for the make out... if she’s in your lap, she’s in your lap.... the only other reason she’d jump in your lap is if she is into one of your roommates and was trying to make him jealous. If that’s not the case then you’re good. Also the “offer up an activity” advice is great if you’re not trying to close right away.
[–]oreo6362 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That makes sense!
[–]wrenagade419 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
maybe offer up an activity other than the party and the club you both could do.
like get an uber and come up with something to do, she mighta been more over the party than wanting to leave you hanging
[–]oreo6362 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thank you!
[–]wrenagade419 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
yea bro, it seems like your confidence dies out when it escalates that far, been there, you just gotta take that chance if you want to spend more time with her, or ask for her number before she leaves
[–]oreo6362 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just keep that confidence going, I gotchu man
[–]Mind_ripper 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
How much porn do you watch now much do you jerk it off?
[–]oreo6362 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Well Im on the road a lot, 4 or 5 times a week
[–]Mind_ripper 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Well porn is like sexual junk food right. I found when i stopped i had way more energy that had to be channeled at the gym. But I was ready so when I got a 9pm booty call from a woman that I had cut off 2 months ago you better believe i was there by 915pm. It was also our first time we had only met once prior to that and went for a 15minute drive then just parted ways. I ignore women until they make contact with me.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Bro 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️ I limit myself to once every other week
[–]oreo6362 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Damn, whats the benefits for not beating my meat?
[–]WIA20XX 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Killer instinct
[–]oreo6362 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol seriously
[–]WIA20XX 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lift heavy, avoid sweets, and stop jacking off to internet porn, and you will stop having these soy boy problems you complain about above. If these chicks are giving you the go ahead, the reptile brain kicks in.
The part of your brain that is responsible for eating, sleeping, pissing and shitting, fighting and fucking kills all the chatter in your mind.
Ya! Alright, I will do that. I will screenshot this
[–]Daytripsinsidecars 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Curious - what’s a tower climber?
We climb cell phone and radio towers to build, decom, do structural maintenance. Fix antennas, radios, changing light bulbs. Towers range from heights of 80ft to 1,200ft or higher.
[–]Daytripsinsidecars 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s pretty darn awesome.
So what’s stopping you from closing. Nerves? Rejection?
Not really nerves, I just dont know what to do when given a opportunity. Like she sat in my lap. I should just grab her hand and head to the bedroom. 🤦🏽♂️
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you should go out and do daygame. Do cold approaches and strike up conversations with girls in public, and close every single time. Once you have a solid habit of closing in daygame, you'll be more confident closing with girls in your social circles.
Im not taking that literally, like more testosterone
[–]-Mavs 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't get it.
High or not, her on your lap was a god damn invitation; should have continued rubbing her leg (maybe inner thigh) and made out with her.
Then you should have asked for her number; being high or drunk would have lowered your inhibitions.
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Ya I forgot to say ai have her on snapchat..
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